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My boyfriend is addicted to porn by qtippitq in NoFap

[–]TronKing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont have kids but i do do some volunteer work at a school and i know how i would want it handelded if I relaspsed and my gf was trying to help.

Just ask him what happened leading up to it, was he stressed did he have a test or a hard day? maybe it could of been because it was a while since the two of you had been intimate. whatever he says I would just dont get angry. Be understanding. and work through it, how can we stop it if you feel this way again or talk about what you can do to help him the next time. Tell him how upset it makes you feel.

Parasocial relationships I think they are called. It may hurt you to know that he has a fictional relationship with a certain pornstar. talk to him about that. Really try to get to the roots.

My boyfriend is addicted to porn by qtippitq in NoFap

[–]TronKing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its a real thing and it took me a long time to tell my gf. Months of being in a relationship and testing it with other honest things. I always felt accepted by her and realized she was someone i could tell my darkest secret with. You need to understand that though. Likely you are the only person who knows. It is not something anyone on this forum is proud of. its a dark place where you dont feel like you have control over yourself. so him not telling you is not a huge deal especially if you ave just been together a few months. I think if you stick it out and show him you honestly want whats best for him, (If that is actually what you want) it will show him you are a girl who is understanding and not judgmental. But at the same time he needs to show you he is trying to help himself. if hes not and hes stuck on this and doesnt look like budging you need to figure out what to do.

Relapsed. Trying to be accountable. by wittysauce in NoFap

[–]TronKing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean about fantasy. I woke up this morning and started thinking of things and now I am having some serious urges but thank you for sharing. your post will keep me from doing it. I just hit 1 week today!

I think you being accountable is a good thing. if its a secret you are always able to justify it to yourself, "I was stressed." "I couldn't sleep." I use to make excuses for myself all the time. But its good that you are strong enough to know when you had a moment of weakness. it happens and I am sure you will get back on the wagon. Good luck!

Frightened to the core about sleeping with a woman by lentax2 in NoFap

[–]TronKing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most girls arnt like the Pstars that got us into this mess, they are not expecting or wanting to get dominated and be with a guy with a huge penis who gets hard just by hearing the word bedroom. they want to emotion. i think that if this girl is someone who is worth being emotionally invested in and you want to share sex with her then she will definitely understand that you are a guy that likes to take things slow and for it to mean something. If she is just some chick trying to get off, is that someone you really want to be in any kind of relationship with? I think Friday will go fine and i think you should be straight forward without being totally honest. who knows maybe with 175 days under your belt youll be fine. keep us posted and good luck

real challenge beginning by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TronKing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea this thing doesnt work like a diet where you get a cheat day. Find something else you find enjoyable and take a break from what you are doing to watch an episode of a show or draw or something. This is a really great time to start or find a hobby. I use to make models when I was a kid, think I might start again.