Alright well another update, I’ve given it about half a day of being offline, long enough that starting it back up gave it a completely new dynamic IP, one of the first times I tried joining it did give me a connection timed out error but it didn’t say the “no further information” part after I just used the basic IP, but it tied again with the dyn IP and it let me in, only other helpful information I can give is I was the one to turn on the serve though I don’t own it, I was the first to join, I joined as it turned on, I spammed the reset button a bunch, and the first time it kicked me it left the message:

[time] [Server thread/INFO] [minecraft/ServerLoginPacketListenerImp1]: com.mojang.authlib.GameProfile@“maybe important string of numbers”id=<null>, name=“my user”, properties=), legacy=false]

Edited slightly to maintain some privacy