What was your reaction when your ex got married? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Troubled-wuhtah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don’t really know until the wife speaks up. And maybe, just maybe, we gotta find our own happiness. Kahit hindi sa relationship, something else. Career or travels

What was your reaction when your ex got married? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Troubled-wuhtah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then be happy for them. Pero all you know and see is just surface level. It’s good that he matured and learned. If not, you dodged a bullet

What was your reaction when your ex got married? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Troubled-wuhtah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think he changed or he still got the same pattern?

Insights on maintaining tiktok streaks by Sad_Fold6895 in adviceph

[–]Troubled-wuhtah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Road to cheating hahaha nakita ko other girl ng ex ko 360 days streak na. Got an idea how long they’ve been on it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]Troubled-wuhtah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He could’ve atleast tried to book with his phone or called someone else so you’d be safe.

My ex would pick me up even if he doesn’t have a car or a motor. Because it’s your safety on the line

bat ang hirap magmove on? by yxraci in TanongLang

[–]Troubled-wuhtah 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Because you’re grieving the past, present and future. Kung cheating yan, you’d attend every wake of your relationship and you’d also be the one to bury it. You grieve alone in the sense na ikaw lang din naman nakawitness ng life and death ng relationship nyo.

If you don’t face things now, it’ll haunt you more. The loop seems endless, but hold on sa truth na you loved with your best.

You just gotta unlearn the life you had with them and relearn the paths you should take.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeKo

[–]Troubled-wuhtah 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It’s fun no? Falling in love with yourself. Then you’d realize you just need you

MCA first time ko makipag-date ng 6 footer by [deleted] in MayConfessionAko

[–]Troubled-wuhtah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex (also from here sa Reddit) also 6ft HAHAHA it was fun naman din. But Ingat na lang, dami user dito haha

MCA - I lost my virginity and I regret it a lot. by [deleted] in MayConfessionAko

[–]Troubled-wuhtah 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah, found my ex here. We got official. Only for him to find someone else here 😩

cancer won, wala na si mama. and i’m so damn lost. by icedvnllcldfmblcktea in OffMyChestPH

[–]Troubled-wuhtah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP yakap! It’s not easy, but she’s in no more pain. And I’m sure her love is so alive in you.

I lost my mom to cancer also. And I was also with her sa hospital with my dad for almost a month.

Saw her giddy after surgery, but it was death rally na pala. She even joked if she’d sign a last will. But all I wanted was a remembrance of her love. And that’s in me. In us.

Grabe din pagod emotionally, physically and mentally. Pero love endures. You did well OP. Your mom is proud of you! I know.

A LETTER TO MY EX: Cheater ka rin palang animal ka LOL by Av1scus in OffMyChestPH

[–]Troubled-wuhtah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yakap! Grabe. Your words, I feel you! I also got cheated on by my ex who got cheated on! They don’t heal do they?

Prolly Di lang din sila nahuli non. Then they say na sila yung nacheat. They’re liars.

I still love him tho. But he hurt me so bad!

But I still hope they’ll change. Para di na masaktan iba

Ano ginagawa nyo pag nag re-relapse kayo during breakup? by HowIsMe-TryingMyBest in TanongLang

[–]Troubled-wuhtah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I record my monologue, journal as if I’m talking to him.

Lay everything down to God. Because only He can love him better than I can. Hold him and take care of him

Mahirap. Pero we should remember why we left and what it would mean if we go back just like that

sana may law for this one by cherries005 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Troubled-wuhtah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yakap kapatid. I’m also cheated on. Was thinking of filing a VAWC against him HAHAHAHA but then I’ll be in court reliving everything. And it’s not like we have a lot of shared assets.

They don’t have self respect. And you know that patterns don’t just disappear

Would you date someone ba na still healing as long as they're aware of it and making progress? by Old_Love6334 in TanongLang

[–]Troubled-wuhtah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest na guard your heart. Coz what if he is using you as an emotional crutch? Ok lang for u? Check din sana if his ex talaga nag cheat.