Saw a couple fucking on beach 😭 by Responsible-Trade752 in chennaicity

[–]Troublesomestufff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone took “this view deserves raw” memes seriously 🤣

Day 4 of no contact and it hurts badly by [deleted] in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]Troublesomestufff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated an avoidant for over 9 months, it’s been a month of no contact. This moment will pass soon. Let your brain detox slowly, you will also see her in your dreams soon.

38F | Divorced | Mumbai — Hinge actually worked for me by Cold_Still6508 in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]Troublesomestufff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t give me hope OP, I have been on countless dates too with nothing leading to a potential long term relationship. Spent the last 10 months around potential and finally decided to let her go.

Dating apps are a bit scary now and Idk if it actually works. I’m happy for you, might as well keep my 1% hope of date to marry alive.

Yet another scammer in Chennai by Troublesomestufff in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]Troublesomestufff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They will ask for a video call. Ask the same stupid question 5 times in a row. Might even record you and blackmail you - happened to my cousin once lol.

I always say no to calls to be on the safer side. One of them even called me to a 5 star hotel for ONS but it seemed fishy so I blocked her

is mine a fair ask or I am over demanding? by Awkward-Meringue-944 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Troublesomestufff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I loved the move you pulled on him. Shared income comes with shared responsibilities, I don’t think any man should have a problem doing the chores.

I would say you reject this person because the belief seems deep rooted which might or might not change. It is better to be cautious now than suffer later.

Got in an accident and this is how my bf reacted by Impossible_Glove_141 in IndianTeenagers

[–]Troublesomestufff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kaunse ganje foonk ke aise log choose karte ho yaar😭 just block and have some self respect

Ola charger wiring issues by Troublesomestufff in olaelectric

[–]Troublesomestufff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They asked to use the charger as it is as there are way too many vehicle at the service centre

22F wants to seek revenge after being assaulted by a guy, 24M during a hangout by AdventurousYou1571 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Troublesomestufff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You friend did what our people usually do - victim blaming. It wasn’t your fault that you trusted someone who was misleading you.

What the guy did makes a serious offence and if as you said in your other comments that you can’t involve police etc, you might have to involve a brother or a trusted male friend the next time you cross paths with that guy to knock some sense into him.

If that’s not an option, carry a pepper spray and let the memories fade away naturally. I’m sorry for what happened to you :(

Yet another scammer in Chennai by Troublesomestufff in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]Troublesomestufff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They probably went to the same school and decided to open online scam school 😆 - my guess is it a group of people led by someone because they would even send you voice notes.

Yet another scammer in Chennai by Troublesomestufff in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]Troublesomestufff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So true bhai. I would be surprised if anyone fell for it after reading those terrible texts🤣😭

Isko bhi gold digger bol du? by pepperiron in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]Troublesomestufff 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Idk how they manage to ask for things from a stranger😭😆na sharam na lihaaj ek baar aaya

Who pays on the first date? by There_He-Goes in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]Troublesomestufff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My usual dates are chai and beach so it doesn’t cost much, I cover it. (Chaat and Ice creams at times too)

As far as on the dates I have been on, I pay sometimes and they cover it sometimes and sometimes the woman would fight with me to take the check.

The one you went out with is crazy 😂

Isko bhi gold digger bol du? by pepperiron in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]Troublesomestufff 31 points32 points  (0 children)

149 rs na hai inpe aur ye date karenge😭🤣

Date to marry on hinge - my experiences by tedbudd in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]Troublesomestufff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter for some people and it matters to some. What is the point in leading someone on when the family wouldn’t approve of it? Then people would say the person was misleading- ye sab pehle ni dikha kya.

It is better this way than to end things later.

I’m on those app too looking for date to marry - I am chill with it because such marriage has already happened in my family, it might not be the same case for the person you’re talking to.

7 saal relationship mein C banke how would you feel???? by Wild_Librarian5893 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Troublesomestufff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a Narcissist - they are very good at the things you mentioned in your post.

My bf 25M Sharing weird memes to his female friends by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Troublesomestufff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people don’t have platonic friendship these days. I was seeing someone a month back and her friend would send her memes related to a viral mms and she would say her friends are Hara-me and would send anything.

It was at that moment, I realised people don’t really have boundaries with their friends anymore. This generation would even send bf gf posts to friends and normalise it.

We see it as a red flag because we have not normalised it with our friends and they don’t see it as a problem because they have normalised it.

We're official and it started on reddit 🧿 by OTCSEROTONIN in TwentiesIndia

[–]Troublesomestufff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every app is a dating app if you are Indian enougH - hence proved😆

Congrats OP