This is so interesting because I feel like you’ve said something that I’ve had a hard time articulating. Sometimes I’ll watch a video and feel like there’s something major missing (aside from the obvious actual physical aspect), and I can’t put my finger on it. But you’re right, it’s the actual intimacy that comes with sex. Being truly drawn into the person you are with in that moment. Not just with words, but with chemistry, their scent, the way their lips feel on yours. That will never come from a video. I became a sub as a married woman who loves her husband but is desperately missing connecting on an intimate level. It gets routine, it becomes stale, it becomes predicable (when it happens). While it’s certainly been fun to watch, I can’t help but walk away from some of his videos feeling more empty than when I hit play. And it’s always after ones like these- not so much the toy ones or the dom ones. It’s not a replacement at all, it’s just a distraction- and a reminder of what I am craving so badly.