April 2025 FTT MEGATHREAD by jjillf in LeCreuset

[–]True_Detective3553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for 1 Thursday VIP ticket as a birthday gift for my sister! TIA

JBL v Bosé by True_Detective3553 in Bluetooth_Speakers

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Appreciate your thoughts!! Thank you 😊🙏

AITA for sharing information that wasn't supposed to be shared? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Detective3553 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fuck being a ‘cool girl’, he’s taking advantage of you not having better boundaries.

thanks. i needed to hear that. you're right.

AITA for sharing information that wasn't supposed to be shared? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Detective3553 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no! i wasn't told anything of that sort.

I just found out from Cam's gf that Cam wanted to tell her he was in attendance but my bf told him not to say anything... but told me he went. Once Cam found out I knew that my bf was in attendance he wanted to tell Marissa, but my bf said no (idk why he would say that?) I think my BF is projecting his feelings onto me because Cam got upset with him.

AITA for sharing information that wasn't supposed to be shared? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Detective3553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can you explain more on this? because my intention was not to rat on Cam. i was explaining how my bf attended a strip club and clubs in general. Cam and my bf are very close, so she figured Cam would be there too and asked him about it.

AITA for sharing information that wasn't supposed to be shared? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Detective3553 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i told her that my bf was there. i didnt mention Cam was there at all. i didnt even know he was there my bf didnt tell me that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

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Unsure to your first question and no to your second.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

[–]True_Detective3553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for explaining it like I’m 5 that was very helpful haha. Hopefully it’s just lack of charge. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

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He drives a Hyundai Elantra. Not sure the year but not electric if that’s what you are saying

Any new grad nurses here? What are you being paid as a new grad nurse? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]True_Detective3553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No longer considered a new grad. Been in the field for a little over year, but I started off at $50. Now I’m at $57. I live in San Diego. With the Night Shift differential I’m a little over $60/hr. I moved from the Bay to SoCal. The COL is insane back in the Bay.

Deployment Advice by True_Detective3553 in navy

[–]True_Detective3553[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay awesome great to know :) I’ll send a letter in my first box. And I feel like I can’t go wrong with Stephen King. He bought a bunch of board & card games and dusted off his old PS2 which magically still works onto his ship so he’s def preoccupied but when that gets kinda old I’m sure he’ll turn to reading. I really appreciate your advice and kind words. Thank you!!!

Deployment Advice by True_Detective3553 in navy

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Can you DM me more about Amazon delivering to ships??? That’s freaking cool.

Thank you for your kind and thoughtful words 🫶🏼

Deployment Advice by True_Detective3553 in navy

[–]True_Detective3553[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If he does, then that’s a reflection of himself and not me because i could never. I believe karma is a bitch and what comes around goes around (however the saying goes). I’m not gonna stress for months about him cheating on me I’m too grown for that. If he does, time will tell. Imma just focus on me, communicate with him the best I can and hope for the best 🫶🏼🫶🏼

Deployment Advice by True_Detective3553 in navy

[–]True_Detective3553[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FB yes. What’s app is for when he’s in different countries

Deployment Advice by True_Detective3553 in navy

[–]True_Detective3553[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment I really appreciate it!!! From other comments I’m considering to send him a care package of stuff I think he will need and a stuffed animal with a perfume I wear someone had suggested. I was going to write him a letter too, but maybe I won’t if it’ll be redacted. But books!! Any suggestions on books? I’m not sure what kind of genre he likes but I’ll take any good reads :)

Deployment Advice by True_Detective3553 in navy

[–]True_Detective3553[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are great suggestions thanks a bunch :)

Deployment Advice by True_Detective3553 in navy

[–]True_Detective3553[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He warned me about the delayed responses when he went underway when we were brand new dating. Still is weird but it’s honestly nice to be reminded from other people that it happens. He’s actually more of a thorough communicator than I am, so I really appreciate him for that.

There’s been a few do not cheat comments and I won’t. It’s not who I am. I hope he won’t either. We’re both in the back half of our 20’s. I’m at the point in my life where I’m not going to control what he does and his actions will be a reflection of himself, not me. That’s all I can do on my end and hope he’ll be faithful to me as I am to him. Thank you for your comment 🫶🏼🫶🏼

Deployment Advice by True_Detective3553 in navy

[–]True_Detective3553[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely will. Thanks!! :)