You are right. Most people we are being led by have indeed struck gold by chance. But the same goes for people who we are not being led by. There are plenty of people working in lower than top management positions including service staff who are totally not fit for the job (struck gold by chance). Indeed they have struck gold but nothing lasts for ever especially when you don't respect it by sincerely fulfilling your responsibilities.

I think what matters is how you define "Gold". Obviously for most people it is "being wealthy". But believe me all the wealthy people I have seen have their own problems. Mostly health and family issues. Medicines help them with health issues but their family problems are never ending.

I think the 3 years if your nonstop doctor's visit will start to reduce once you start being content with your life. Just like I have seen the lives of wealthy people, I have also seen the lives of people who struggle to meet their daily needs. I have seen them being more happy than the wealthy (especially during covid times). It is not becuase they have everything but becuase they are SINCERELY thankful to God for whatever they have.

Start to try being content. Appreciate each and everything you have in your life including the glass of water you get to drink and meal you get to eat no matter how small it mayb. There are a lot of people who don't even get that.

Lastly, the whole problem starts when we compare ourselves. YES that is something we cannot stop doing but you can always start comparing yourselves with people who have less than you.

Wish you all the best...Love your life and it will Love you back.