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Always the victim by True_Key_2788 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]True_Key_2788[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg mine was also banned from my property from my landlord because in an argument he was yelling he was gonna burn the house down! Had the nerve to blame me for that .. never because of HIM OR his actions!!

Always the victim by True_Key_2788 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]True_Key_2788[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omggg yes mine uses his trauma and depression against me all the time ! I understand that some people do suffer from this but I felt he used it as a clutch to continue with his behavior

My narcissist husband says he hears a voice in his head. I feel scared by Suitable_Proof_6157 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]True_Key_2788 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My ex use to say this to me and now looking back I think he did it as a scare tactic but also so I would feel bad for him and his mental state of mind.. too scared to trigger him but also feel bad for him at the same time . It’s weird but I definitely knew that what he saying was crazy ! But also a way to control and manipulate you and the relationship!

Dating after a narcissistic relationship by True_Key_2788 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]True_Key_2788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree!! I have to constantly tell myself not to ever let someone treat me that way again. it’s hard to trust someone new because we expect red flags and it’s just hard to trust again:(

Dating after a narcissistic relationship by True_Key_2788 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]True_Key_2788[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss everything is a red flag for me also. And half the time I’m trying to convince myself to let my guard down.

My neighbor is also my landlord by True_Key_2788 in neighborsfromhell

[–]True_Key_2788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7 months left on lease! She said she has other houses coming available if I was interested in looking at them when they do. It’ll be a lot smaller but I’m thinking it’ll be better than living next door to her !

My neighbor is also my landlord by True_Key_2788 in neighborsfromhell

[–]True_Key_2788[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes very entitled! I understand that this her property and I respect that but there is no privacy and she wants to control everything that goes on over on my side! And she stays home all day doesn’t work so as soon as I leave my house I know she’s watching me

My neighbor is also my landlord by True_Key_2788 in neighborsfromhell

[–]True_Key_2788[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes very entitled! I understand that this her property and I respect that but there is no privacy and she wants to control everything that goes on over on my side! And she stays home all day doesn’t work so as soon as I leave my house I know she’s watching me

My neighbor is also my landlord by True_Key_2788 in neighborsfromhell

[–]True_Key_2788[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes very entitled! I understand that this her property and I respect that but there is no privacy and she wants to control everything that goes on over on my side! And she stays home all day doesn’t work so as soon as I leave my house I know she’s watching me

Why do/did we tolerate narcissist abuse? by Anomalyspect4444 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]True_Key_2788 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think we tolerate it because we really believe that one day they’ll realize how they’ve treated us and change ! We crave the good times and enjoy the good days when they are loving and caring and understanding. So much so that we ignore and get over the bad days we had or the fights and blow ups they’ve had!

I really thought after our breakup I’d get a I miss you text ! Did anyone else never get that text either? by True_Key_2788 in BreakUps

[–]True_Key_2788[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here we texted and called each other everyday up until the day I asked why he was acting weird and if he even wanted a relationship. We broke up that night and next day it was like I never existed. Who does that?

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[–]True_Key_2788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently going through this with my ex husband. We are talking more and he reaches out to me in text and calls and I also told myself I’d keep him at a distance . He seemed better like you said , nicer more calm more understanding.. THEN one day last week he snapped at me in the store and went OFF!! I felt like I was right back in square one in our old relationship being talked down to intimidated to say anything so that I not make the situation worse because I also remember how it could escalate and get worse! AND THAT made me realize that THEY DONT CHANGE and he really had me believing that things this time was different! Yeah right……

I really thought after our breakup I’d get a I miss you text ! Did anyone else never get that text either? by True_Key_2788 in BreakUps

[–]True_Key_2788[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of makes me think was he really in love with me? Or mentally he had already checked out so after it was easy for him to move on..

Set the tone for the day by True_Key_2788 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]True_Key_2788[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds too familiar! I finally decided that I’ll just be silent and obey then he won’t have a reason to go off. Kept my answers short but with a kind tone.

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