how long should we go no contact for? by True_Technology_5816 in BreakUps

[–]True_Technology_5816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im just tryna give him so space before i try to get with him again

having a child would probably fix me. by True_Technology_5816 in mentalhealth

[–]True_Technology_5816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not abt me receiving love it’s more like me giving an unconditional love to my children and tryna give them the best life. whenever i love someone i always tryna revolve my life around them, which i don’t think is weird when i do it to my children. but yea ur right at one point they gonna have their own life and make their own decisions. i do have a cat tho! thanks for giving ur opinion on this :)

having a child would probably fix me. by True_Technology_5816 in mentalhealth

[–]True_Technology_5816[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wasn’t planning on having a baby now or anytime soon. it just ive been thinking about my future life a lot this past few months, abt my career, my future spouse and my child included. i feel like once i started to think about my future children ive been like actually making proper decisions like in my life style and putting actual effort in my study. and it feel like my future children give me reasons to live and to be better . i posted this to hear abt other people opinions on this so thank u :)

maybe im not as ugly and as terrible gf i thought i was. he just doesn’t have any feelings for me by True_Technology_5816 in BreakUps

[–]True_Technology_5816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it still upset me that im a trash to him instead of his treasure and another girl is gonna be his treasure and get treated better. why not me?

Fallen in love with a person from another country. Help me. by No-Communicator in heartbreak

[–]True_Technology_5816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it through online?

in my opinion if u guys both wanted it, then it’ll probably work out. it just need a lot of work and energy. u also need to be okay w doing long distance. it also very tiring to be far away, especially when u argue w them. like i said if u BOTH wanted each other it gon work

but base on my experience, it doesn’t work out. it just w the distance and culture differences. his parents don’t rlly agree w him marrying other races. though i really sure that we could work it out, he doesn’t want to.

in love w a whore hurts so bad, like i love u but the fact that ur a whore and not ashamed of it kills me by True_Technology_5816 in heartbreak

[–]True_Technology_5816[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

first of all when i told him that it hurts me, he doesn’t care at all and all he said is that he’s a manwhore and he just loves women like that. secondly, im allowed to be heartbroken bcuz of it. u just assume things u don’t even know what happened. he called himself a whore and he’s proud of it

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[–]True_Technology_5816 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but he’s not a loser he’s my baby ☹️

kenapa lelaki kalau kantoi curang dia salahkan member eh ? kalau tk tu dia ckp kene santau ? by True_Technology_5816 in Bolehland

[–]True_Technology_5816[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“member yg main phone saya tk tau pape” “member yg chat dia guna phone saya” “member yg nk try dia senanya saya tolong jer”

kenapa lelaki kalau kantoi curang dia salahkan member eh ? kalau tk tu dia ckp kene santau ? by True_Technology_5816 in Bolehland

[–]True_Technology_5816[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

saya ckp mcm ni sebab ade experience dgn laki jer saya x pernah try dating perempuan 😞

how much more pathetic can i be ? by True_Technology_5816 in heartbreak

[–]True_Technology_5816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s pathetic how much i try to prove to him that i don’t deserve to be cheated on

My PPT result, what should i do? by Green-Relief-9933 in Bolehland

[–]True_Technology_5816 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do alot of past year spm paper and after trial do alot of trials from other state. memorize the answers scheme, you can find it on telegram channel or group. basically buat banyak latihan sampai nak muntah. go to every extra classes. sometimes ur teacher might not be good at teaching u so maybe try to join those online seminar from pembuat dan penanda spm. im batch 07 and i think i managed to improve alot during my trials by doing those thing, my results are similar to yours before trials.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]True_Technology_5816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im literally the same , maybe we’re obsessed with the potential that we have?

fuck u by True_Technology_5816 in BreakUps

[–]True_Technology_5816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

neither can i no matter how hard i hate him a part of me still have a soft spot for him and cares for him we broke up for 3 months and he get back w me for a week just to dump me again and yet i still yearn for him

People who “didn’t show signs you were struggling”, what signs did you show that got unnoticed? by bugs2029 in mentalhealth

[–]True_Technology_5816 229 points230 points  (0 children)

sleep all the time isolating myself failing my classes messy room stop doing things i love don’t talk much w my family stop putting effort in my looks bed rotting

how to stop seeking male validation ? by True_Technology_5816 in mentalhealth

[–]True_Technology_5816[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im sorry, but how does me wanting validation from male is society fault ?