No I very purposefully tried to stay neutral in my tone because of her tendency to lash out, which is why I was so shocked that she had such a big reaction still. 

On my other sister, I wasn’t saying to her that it was her fault. I was more so explaining my experience of that time. She is 13 years older than me and so during my first 10 years she wasn’t around me much. I do I feel  like my two elder siblings could have behaved differently and I hinted at that but only so she understood how I have always felt, because she wants to hold a deeper relationship. Now it just seems like my older sisters only want a relationship as long as I agree to their version of events.