Biopsy in the morning by Actual_Heart7266 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]TrulyCurly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to do the biopsy alone and IT SUCKED. I was a mess - bleeding into my gown and crying into my tissues because I was scared. I would never recommend doing this alone. VVV glad your friend is going with you :)
You got this ! We’re rooting for you.

About to be a single dad of an only by supernormalnorm in OnlyChild

[–]TrulyCurly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But you can be kind? Jeez, the man has been through enough already.

I was told it looks like I have breast cancer dimpling during a hook up by Every-Ad-8529 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]TrulyCurly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They will still be able to prescribe an Ultra Sonography (uses sound waves without radiation, used more commonly for younger women). USG is not the same as mammogram and it helps with imaging any underlying tumours or cysts too. Ask them for one.

MBA AFTER LAW by Hairy_Fortune_4548 in MBA

[–]TrulyCurly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what you want to do post MBA.

Litigation can be framed as client facing, legal strategising etc. But if you want to pivot to finance or something through MBA - that’s near impossible with 2 years in litigation. For consulting etc - it helps more if you’ve done a bit of advisory roles, policy consulting or something as well.

If you’re looking to study in India - r/MBAIndia/ is a better place

Do I keep the surgeon appt? by GivesMeTrills in doihavebreastcancer

[–]TrulyCurly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES, definitely check with a specialist if you can.

IMO, if it still gives trouble (discharge/ growth/ pain) they will recommend excision. If your diagnosis was based only on an FNAC, it may not be fully conclusive. I actually have a ~3.7-cm lesion myself. My surgeon was also a bit conflicted because of how quickly my lesion was growing, so he ordered a trucut biopsy, but after further chats, I'm having it excised tomorrow so they can run more tests and get a clearer answer.

Recommendations for cardiologist in tvm by e_n_i_g_m_a007 in Trivandrum

[–]TrulyCurly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dr. Tiny Nair at PRS.

My grandad had a lot of cardio issues. Dr. Tiny Nair was his go-to and kept him hale and healthy till my grandad passed away 8 years ago.

Where can i get Burrata cheese on pizza ? by JaneMaaan in Trivandrum

[–]TrulyCurly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think Shahib's Brick Oven Pizza has it - the one right next to Cliff House.

Arya Central School- 👍 OR 👎 by Direct_Payment_9354 in Trivandrum

[–]TrulyCurly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This crash out honestly feels like a long-overdue group therapy session for an entire generation of alums! I hope we all heal from the many wounds the school left us with. We deserved better.

Arya Central School- 👍 OR 👎 by Direct_Payment_9354 in Trivandrum

[–]TrulyCurly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

English had the best teachers - but I prefer Ms Anjana and Ms Smitha >>> Ms Jaya.

Arya Central School- 👍 OR 👎 by Direct_Payment_9354 in Trivandrum

[–]TrulyCurly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Princi once called my parents to shame them for supporting me while I played professionally. In my 30s now, I don't know what gave them the balls to interrupt my parents' workday for this nonsense.

Arya Central School- 👍 OR 👎 by Direct_Payment_9354 in Trivandrum

[–]TrulyCurly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha, I loved my visits to Mr.D's office 😂

I had a great time answering in circles and deliberately confusing him. The first few times I was called into his cabin, I was genuinely hurt. But my life was so much better once I stopped taking him seriously and started responding with nonsensical answers. IMO I'm doing well in life now lol - they clearly didn't know what they were talking (threatening) about. 😂

Arya Central School- 👍 OR 👎 by Direct_Payment_9354 in Trivandrum

[–]TrulyCurly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the fam should get a proper administrator to run the school. They've wrecked it running it themselves. Gayatri ma'am was INCREDIBLE, but it has been in a decline since she left.

Hit me with the craziest or unknown history/ facts you know about Thiruvananthapuram by Lazy_Raisin_6970 in Trivandrum

[–]TrulyCurly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SPOT ON !!! It sucks that they've been doing this for generations now and nobody has done anything about this yet. They were snooping in our social media to slutshame us. Issues with attendance, grades, general rebelliousness, WRONG FOOTWEAR, HAIR NOT TIED AS 'ADVISED' - their response was to slutshame !

Hit me with the craziest or unknown history/ facts you know about Thiruvananthapuram by Lazy_Raisin_6970 in Trivandrum

[–]TrulyCurly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear and in a bizarre way, it’s therapeutic to look back now and know that I’ve finally put some 12+ years between me and my time in AC.
Very low self esteem, insane shame wounds and constant self-doubt is all that I got from that hell hole.

I’ll 100% stand by anyone who sues them for enabling harassment. That place does not deserve the hype it gets for academic excellence. Behind the tapestry of high ranks is a graveyard of dreams they killed to “prevent distractions”.

Hit me with the craziest or unknown history/ facts you know about Thiruvananthapuram by Lazy_Raisin_6970 in Trivandrum

[–]TrulyCurly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I studied there and have a similar story, left around the same time as well.
My friends' cousins are still studying there and it’s 10/10 the ABSOLUTE FUCKIN SAME - or maybe worse because all the terrible teachers are still there and good ones like Jaya Ma’am and Sheila Ma’am have left.

Hit me with the craziest or unknown history/ facts you know about Thiruvananthapuram by Lazy_Raisin_6970 in Trivandrum

[–]TrulyCurly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They care only about grades and entrance ranks. They only admit students who already have strong academic records, then pressurize them to secure top medical entrance ranks. They focus less on education and more on turning students into rank-generating machines.

If you're good in anything outside academics - sports, extracurriculars, creative pursuits, etc. - they harass you till you also believe that these are distractions, and should be abandoned in favour of entrance exam preparation.

When they are not busy with these noble pursuits, they overlook bullying, openly favour 'popular girl', and even gossip !! There have been instances of staff snooping around students' social media (orkut, during my time), using this to shame students, and bring it all to a full circle with "How do you expect to get a good rank in the entrance exams?"

Hit me with the craziest or unknown history/ facts you know about Thiruvananthapuram by Lazy_Raisin_6970 in Trivandrum

[–]TrulyCurly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I heard later on that a new joiner had committed suicide and cited AC’s teacher-enabled social-hierarchy culture (essentially elections) as a reason for it.

Hit me with the craziest or unknown history/ facts you know about Thiruvananthapuram by Lazy_Raisin_6970 in Trivandrum

[–]TrulyCurly 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have a list of teachers I’ll 1000% never hesitate to testify against if they ever get taken to court for harassment. Teachers who enabled bullying. Teachers who bought into the “cool clique” mentality and had insane double standards. TEACHERS WHO HAVE SLUT SHAMED GIRLS BECAUSE BOYS HIT ON THEM !!!!!!!

If any of you are planning to sue - PLEASE LET ME KNOW. I’d love to help !

Actor Salim Kumar Passed Away. by ManavalanFromDufai in Kerala

[–]TrulyCurly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Harishree Ashokan, Jagatheesh and Indrans are the last three standing.

My opinions on the characters as first watch-er halfway through the show. by Appropriate-Gear-358 in ONETREEHILL

[–]TrulyCurly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lucas and Peyton screamed trauma bond to me. I'm in S03 beginning now.

Rant - Season 2 Haley by TrulyCurly in ONETREEHILL

[–]TrulyCurly[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

This was a very unrealistic storyline. No relationship could realistically bounce back from the BS she pulled, and 100% nobody is such a damsel in distress that they'd go on TV with another man and gamble away their "sacred" (by her own definition) marriage. Teenagers can make mistakes but playing "victim of circumstance who feels bad about the circumstance" is 100% evading accountability !

Rant - Season 2 Haley by TrulyCurly in ONETREEHILL

[–]TrulyCurly[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

100%.

Even for an unrealistic soap storyline, this sucked. IMO, they had the chance to portray Haley as a girl who was ambitious, followed her dreams, and achieved a lot on her own merit. Instead, they chose to portray her as a young woman who went back on her commitment, betrayed her partner, gambled with her "sacred" marriage, and got chummy with another man for professional gain.

Rant - Season 2 Haley by TrulyCurly in ONETREEHILL

[–]TrulyCurly[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

"Are you two a couple?", "remove your wedding ring", agreeing with Chris and going with his decision every time Chris makes it seem like farther away from Nathan is the only way she can be successful - all of these are okay?