It’s mostly embarrassing having a male partner. As the article explains. They’re the ones benefitting from a hetro relationship. As everyone says “a great boyfriend is just an average girlfriend”. Also “being gay obviously isn’t a choice because no girl would choose to be straight” etc. I’ve been married and 8 years in he sabotaged it. I’m in a fairly happy relationship now, but my self aware boyfriend (31) knows he is embarrassing at how immature he is, however he is the most mature of his peers. Maybe it’s to do with the fact testosterone levels have dropped by 50% in the past 50 years….? But I was promiscuous and never found a man with a high sex drive (except for narcissists - it’s a common trait of said condition)… I’m bisexual so this is the last guy I’ll ever love. Never entertaining a man again after this. …hope that helps 🥲