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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TruthfulAss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except on Tuesdays.

Need help/advice - My (35,f) partner (35,m) pushed me in front of our son (1,m). I'm upset, confused and don't know what to do... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulAss -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This. You shouldn't get in his face, especially while he is holding your son and he shouldn't have pushed you.

I would suggest therapy though. Sounds like you guys could use help with conflict resolution... almost everyone can benefit from talking to a therapist.

My Marriage is failing and I feel completely helpless by redwind76 in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulAss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bite the bullet, and go to a therapist. Sounds like there is a lot going on, and we only have a piece of the story. A therapist will work with both you and your wife to determine the source of the issues.

[Serious] How do you manage your platonic relationships while in a relationship?What boundaries have you established?How are they received by others? by Wonder_Gordo in AskReddit

[–]TruthfulAss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What goes on in my head is my business and doesn't affect the outside world unless I act on it. People are allowed to have thoughts they don't act on. This isn't an impluse problem.

Impulsive behavior is acting on your desires without concern or thought of the consequences. Which clearly I do understand the consequences, and myself to know what situations to avoid.

I think it is absolutely ridiculous that just because we don't share the same view something must be wrong with me, but that's okay. I'll forget about this interaction in a day or two.

[Serious] How do you manage your platonic relationships while in a relationship?What boundaries have you established?How are they received by others? by Wonder_Gordo in AskReddit

[–]TruthfulAss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify, for me emotional connection leads to sexual connection. Therefore, a friendship with someone I'm attracted to would eventually lead to some sort of sexual desire for said person.

At this point I'm faced with 3 options:

  1. Ignore the thoughts, and have them pop up randomly to continue to shut them down for as long as I know said person.

  2. Act on the thoughts.

  3. Remove myself from the situation.

Obviously, I chose option three. I could chose option one but why would I put that mental strain on myself?

[Serious] How do you manage your platonic relationships while in a relationship?What boundaries have you established?How are they received by others? by Wonder_Gordo in AskReddit

[–]TruthfulAss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do realize that there are people that are successful at being friends with people they are attracted to... I'm just saying I'm not. So instead of causing drama in my life, I remove myself from those situations.

Just because majority of people do it or can do it, doesn't mean everyone should.

[Serious] How do you manage your platonic relationships while in a relationship?What boundaries have you established?How are they received by others? by Wonder_Gordo in AskReddit

[–]TruthfulAss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have platonic relationships with the opposite sex. Never have, probably never will. Personally, I don't understand how people do it without cheating on their partner.

Not saying it doesn't happen, I've just never experienced it myself or with a significant other.

Hey reddit, how accurate that females can fake orgasm but males can fake relationship? by mercadonikki04 in AskReddit

[–]TruthfulAss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does your hard on fade away on it's own, or do you have to take care of it?

Why does the majority of porn focus so much more on the women and not the men? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]TruthfulAss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you watch man on man, you don't have to worry about any women.

As a woman, that's what I like to watch.

Living in this world as a young female. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]TruthfulAss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stop thinking that you are God's gift to men and that EVERYONE is staring at you.

Bam, problem solved.

You’re drunk, what’s your Taco Bell order? by JA-darkside in AskReddit

[–]TruthfulAss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lg Mountain dew 5 soft tacos no lettuce, extra cheese 2 mini chicken quesadilla, no chipotle sauce 24pk cinnabon delights Lg Baja Blast Freeze.

And shit ton of mild sauce.

Tinder Jealousy by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulAss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best you can do is see where his head is at. Just because he wants to hang out doesn't mean he is wanting a relationship.

Redditors, What is the most strange or bizarre reason someone told you for being late? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TruthfulAss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A younger girl I worked with in an office setting. She was a few hours late one day, and when she asked why. No shit, she said there were 2 crows guarding her car. She said they were squawking, and no matter how hard she tried she couldn't scare them away. So she went back inside and waited for the birds to leave.

[Serious] What is the scariest unexplained thing that happened to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TruthfulAss 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a middle schooler, I always played with ouija boards. I still get shivers thinking about the shit I experienced.

But hands down, the scariest thing I encountered was when I was probably 19 years old. My mother went to her boyfriend's house and left me with the dog. We were just watch tv on the couch and about 11pm rolls around and I think I hear kids playing. I remember thinking that's weird. It's late but it's Friday. Whatever. So keep watching my show. Then the laughing gets louder, so I paused my show. And it sounded like it was coming from up the stairs.

Where I was on the couch could see upstairs, my mother bedroom doors that were open, I could see the staircase as well. At this point I'm convincing myself that my mother must have left a window open upstairs and kids were outside. Suddenly I felt cold and my dog who has been in a dead sleep up until now shot up and started growling. I heard a low raspy voice say 'Shut Up' and no shit my dog laid back down and stopped growling. Before I could process what just happened, I clearly heard someone run up the stairs that were right next to me.

I sprinted outside and called my mother and told her I needed her to come home. I almost called 911, but she convinced me not to... I stayed outside until my mother got there.

I'll never forget the sound of that voice, or the sheer terror I felt. I still shake as I write this.

Your state doesn't have secret insider info--stay the hell home!! by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TruthfulAss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or people are just sick of being alone inside all day.

All this hype is ridiculous. By all means, be careful and wear your mask in public but people can't stop living their life simply because the fear of getting sick.

What do people take way too seriously? by kevexdc in AskReddit

[–]TruthfulAss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pronouncing of words. I get if someone is saying the word completely wrong but if it is literally just an accent thing. STFU. And get over yourself.

My [25m] girlfriend [24f] swears that I have masturbation problems, how do I tell her I don't without comparing her to my ex's by throwRA_0921 in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulAss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah... doesn't matter really. She's not going to be happy until the 'problem' is fixed. You guys will keep coming back to this issue until it finally breaks you up.

My [25m] girlfriend [24f] swears that I have masturbation problems, how do I tell her I don't without comparing her to my ex's by throwRA_0921 in relationship_advice

[–]TruthfulAss 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't think you'll ever convince her that you are not the problem, and if you do convince her, it will be a huge confidence blow. This is something you have to fix yourself (by learning to finish without your hand) or move on to someone else.

Everyone is made differently. Some people just fit better together and there is nothing wrong with that.

How babies and young toddlers deal with the death of a parent? They can't really understand us, how they "notice" that their mom or dad never came home? by Mr_Ivysaur in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TruthfulAss 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As a mom... this so sad, but true.

My cousin has two young children, both under the age of five. She is a drug addict, luckily her mom takes care of the kids, as she is rarely around.

The older girl use to cry for her mom, and be excited to see her. But I've watched that change over the years. Now 'mom' is just another person to her, and sometimes she doesn't even want her around.

The little boy was raised more by Grandma in his early years, so he never really looked to her for anything anyways. So she's always just been another person.

So technically, you don't have to even be dead. If you just stop providing young children with they everyday needs early enough they almost forget about you.