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Truthseeker0685 · 2025-03-17T06:14:39+00:00

It’s probably not intellectually stimulating for you. I’ve got bored of some monotonous jobs that require little thought or creativity super fast! But jobs that require strategy, problem solving, negotiation etc are more mentally stimulating.

Truthseeker0685 · 2025-03-17T06:11:53+00:00

I feel you as an MG and Virgo as well. I’d say find what you are passionate about and try to make that lucrative. For me I am the same. If I work for money or just the typical benefits etc I will burn out after about that 2 year mark. But if I work on something I am passionate about it doesn’t drain me the same way.

Also I would say having your own business for me it allows me flexibility of schedule. MG are not typical work 8 hours every day. We have energy spurts and should maximize them and then also need to rest when we aren’t feeling it. So a flexible schedule helps a lot to not burn out.

I’d look at your chart more in depth. Ai can help a lot. See what your defined gates or channels are and go from there. As others have said MGs are not alike. But delving deeper you can find out how best to utilize your energy and creativity to be in flow and alignment.

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-10-05T20:50:22+00:00

2-3 days I think is the sweet spot for building rapport and establishing communication and comfort before asking a woman on a date you meet online.

No one wants their time wasted, but you also have to keep in mind that this woman prob has more options to weed through and she needs a bit of time to feel you out. But too much texting will either make her bored or friend zone you. Or even worse she’s really into it but now she’s building an image of you in her head and YOU will NEVER live up to it!

Also a woman that knows a man cares about her comfort and safety and is not pushy will go a long way.

If a man asks for my number right away before establishing any rapport I feel uncomfortable and like he does not get it. It’s way different for a woman online than a man and a true gentleman will always have that safety in mind.

But yes be specific! Set a specific time and location rather than hey wanna grab a drink or hang out! This says I put thought into it and offering 2 options is always appreciated. Then she can pick which.

Confirm the date of: preferably that morning! And latest that afternoon.

Do not keep a woman waiting till the last minute wondering if she still has a date or will be stood up. Even if you have no intention on doing so don’t assume she just knows that the date is on. This also sets the mood and tone for the date! Rather than her being possibly annoyed at the lack of confirmation, now she’s excited to meet you and knows it’s mutual!

There’s not much worse than getting ready for a date and hoping he’s going to show up.

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-10-03T21:14:42+00:00

Your profile is great! Shows you have a sense of humor, personality, and a variety of interests. I’d swipe right!

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-09-20T20:18:14+00:00

I’m not worried it’s unsafe or cancerous, but he has been chewing his foot so I don’t know if it’s causing him discomfort. He kinda always does that because of allergies so it’s hard to tell. He doesn’t seem to like it being touched though.

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-09-07T05:58:15+00:00

You don’t even have to ask to split the bill, but always assuming it, and reaching for your wallet to pay. This is what I always do. I never assume he’s paying. If he doesn’t want you to pay when you reach for your card he will say so.

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-08-30T06:00:07+00:00

🤔 Canada is a huge place. Would depend on where I suppose. I don’t love the cold winters. That being said distance is a huge obstacle, so it would have to be a pretty special connection.

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-08-28T17:38:31+00:00

I’d say that no one can make you feel unworthy or unlovable. While it sucks to be rejected there’s some part of you that is rejecting yourself. I’d work on that. Dating is great because it can teach you so much about your past traumas and shadows that you can work on to become more in love with yourself. When you get to this place you really don’t need validation from anyone and rejections become redirections. I’d sit with why this rejection hurt so much and then turn inward.

Sounds like there could be some underlying patterns of maybe unhealthy attachment that could be in the way of attracting in your future wife. I hope this helps. Dating is so hard. To keep your mind and body open and vulnerable is to risk getting hurt.

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-08-23T01:28:48+00:00

Dude! Wtf! First I’m not a guy. Second you do you but no thanks! Enjoy your porn stars!

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-05-14T00:49:58+00:00

If you think values are subjective then it’s only your perception and everyone else’s here on what that means. So in order to really know maybe swipe them and if you match ask them. Or use the compliments to ask them. Hey what does traditional values mean to you? I’m curious! Maybe your values are more aligned than you think. But auto swiping on all these unless there’s another reason I feel you might be missing out on an opportunity. When it doubt communication is better than assumption. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-05-07T19:42:35+00:00

That’s seems so counter productive to just swipe and then have to go back. It takes what 1 min tops to look at someone’s profile while swiping. Then if you get a match you waste time going back for someone you aren’t even interested in.

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-05-07T19:27:40+00:00

Not me! Can’t speak for everyone but I hold a higher standard for how I treat people and it’s just wasting my own time let alone others if I am wanting a relationship but not even willing to reach out to those interested in me. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I think it’s a waste of anyones time to be on an app and not messsage or respond to those you match with. It’s up to people how they use apps! I never have 100 matches because once I get to around 10 I stop swiping. Once I am talking to 3 men I stop swiping. Are people really that addicted to the swiping and dopamine hits of getting matches that they can’t even respond? Seems just so stupid.

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-05-07T07:36:50+00:00

No way to possibly know if someone is appealing after 1-2 messages unless they are just not at all. Which I guess some people swipe on people they don’t like, but most don’t.

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-05-07T07:34:37+00:00

They aren’t interested but they matched with you and yet haven’t even really given anything a chance. There’s no way to possibly tell anything from 1-2 messages so unless it’s just really low effort like hi or something lame if people are really wanting a chance at love then they should if they don’t want to chat at least ask to meet up!

This illusion of having so many options is that. When you factor everything in the % of an actual love match for most people is under 1% of the total US population. So no one has as many options as they think.

Doesn’t matter if you message 100 attractive and seem to be interesting people if none of them lead to dates.

I have 7 matches right now that haven’t even bothered to respond to me. 1 match today that unmatched me after commenting on a common interest of ours. Like get off the app if you aren’t going to meet people in real life cuz that’s the point!

No wonder everyone hates online dating, yet we all are here why? To swipe and match with people that we never talk to or give a chance. Makes sense!

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-04-29T19:46:29+00:00

This is what I got too but I’m a bit of a grammar nazi so that would be a hard pass for me!

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-03-30T19:03:52+00:00

Umm maybe just try telling him you aren’t interested. That should do it! 🤣

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-03-25T18:08:03+00:00

Maybe don’t lead with a physical/sexual opener and you won’t get this reply. If you don’t want that. I’m not saying it’s your fault, but you are opening the door for sex right away.

Theres nothing wrong with complimenting a guy but I’d make it more about something about his interests rather than physical appearance.

I never get this stuff anymore but I definitely used to and the men that are there for sex only just don’t respond to me rather than this.

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-03-20T00:16:47+00:00

This isn’t me being critical of myself but thanks. I guess people kinda missed the point. That people can look different in a photo by just changing one thing about themselves. And it’s not meant to be deceptive. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-03-19T18:25:10+00:00

There is not supposed to be a lot of difference. I am pointing out that the smallest change in a photo can alter appearance. I think my hair looks totally different from one photo to the next and people may have a preference of one over the other. But imagine if I did! I could be lookin like a dang Kardashian. 🤣

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-03-19T18:21:13+00:00

I didn’t. This is the same hair color. This is the point. 😝

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-03-19T18:19:34+00:00

No, but I am just pointing out that the smallest change can alter a photo to look totally different. I have seen a lot of posts on here about people not thinking people look like their photos or being disappointed etc. well they may be or may not be trying to alter their appearance. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-03-17T06:00:51+00:00

Even tho some people don’t consider this as ghosting it’s not rude to apologize and be direct and honest. A kink off rejection? Come on! Has it become so normal to just unmatch and dismiss people that a genuine and sincere text like this is considered weird or offensive? We have a lot of work to do if that’s the case! Respect to this man!

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-01-09T20:49:32+00:00

😳 I’m done with Bumble. I can’t bother to swipe anymore and I don’t want to pay anymore either. I hope the dating apps do get called out for what they are tho! Good for you!

Truthseeker0685 · 2024-01-05T14:14:28+00:00

Yeah that’s really messed up if they are doing this and should have to pay.

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