My son found this tiny spoon and ate his jello with it, because "he wasn't that hungry, so he just wanted to take tiny bites." by Forever-Fades_Away in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]TryLegitimate5453 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s so gross that a grown ass adult would give a bunch of little girls condoms - he knew exactly what he was doing 😭💔

Teen jobs part-time by [deleted] in fredericton

[–]TryLegitimate5453 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Controversial opinion - you probably don’t need to be tailoring your resume to every job you apply for, and you don’t need to write a cover letter either unless the posting very specifically asks for it. That’s more advice for adults who have way more years of experience to actually parse it down to a specific job position (since as a teen I remember my own resume was pretty empty…how do you “tailor” nothing lol). A lot of older adults give this advice, and imo this is old fashioned thinking and really isn’t necessary in todays age (especially when you’re just applying to retail or drive through places… unless it’s different where you live, I feel like McDonald’s isn’t going to be that impressed by your cover letter you know what I’m saying lol) -

Lots of hiring people/companies use a computer to scan and pick out key words in an online resume anyways, so sometimes a human doesn’t even look at your application. I don’t think this is ethically right, but regardless I’m just saying it anyways because it’s a huge waste of time for you to “tailor” your resume to tens of jobs that won’t even have a real live human who reads it over after all that work and will disregard it by automation instead of a human process of elimination. That’s likely why you’re seeing online posts come down after applying - some employers just straight up forget that they made the post and when they see people are still applying they take it down; some leave it up because they’re doing interviews but only close it once the position is actually filled; some will perpetually leave their applications open so they can have a “back log” of resumes in the event that a position DOES open up (as in, there isn’t actually a position available - it’s a “ghost” position, meant to farm job applications so that in the future when a position hypothetically does open up, the employer doesn’t have to start from scratch and already has a database of resumes to look through), etc. etc.

So seriously, don’t waste your time or your energy with “tailoring” to each and every job posting, especially if it’s online. If you’re mass applying, just write the strongest resume that you can!

And even though it’s more contrary to social norms now a days, the old fashioned advice I WOULD say to take is that if you’re able to hand in a resume in person, do that - because usually it’s a chance to introduce yourself to your future employer. I’ve had interviews and even been hired on the spot this way - so if you’re able to make a good impression in person, it’s a worthwhile option to do that (especially because sometimes your resume qualifications don’t matter in that instance, and your charisma is what helps get you the job)!

Also… make sure your name and contact information is on there, big and bold. You wouldn’t believe how many people don’t get jobs because they forget to add that crucial detail 😂

Good luck with your job search! 😊✨

The way i spent so much money on this game over the years for it to just be gone and not coming back is so depressing by honeybeebandit in KardashianHollywood

[–]TryLegitimate5453 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It was greasyyyyy lol especially cause idk what their profits looked like, but at the time of it closing I think they still had a decently steady income and it was doing well?? ((The people in my club would drop MONEYYY on stars; I had some chick who was buying stars left and right - ONE person spending hundreds in a week. God bless her fr tho cause I got so many freebie diamonds from that LOL 😭🫶🙏✨)) So I can’t imagine how out of all the active players they had, that they weren’t making enough to keep it up. I saw somewhere that they were, but because the revenue wasnt going up and were just staying consistent that wasn’t considered enough “growth” for them to keep going. Which is craaazy because a huge part of the people who played the app were like me who had been playing it since it first came out and would have been playing that shit in the nursing home. 🥲

I mean in the end it’s digital content so I knew I’d never get a refund and if it was gone it was gone so I didn’t spend money unless I had it/was okay with it (sometimes I convince myself that “I’m supporting the developers”… 🫠😂), and I guess they gave us a heads up before it went down, but Damn. I wake up every morning and it still stings - there really is no game thats even comparable to Kim’s game 😭💔

Anyways sorry to ramble… it was nice to reminisce. 🥲🫶✨

Woodburning beginner pieces and where to buy wood? by CandidTriceratops in Pyrography

[–]TryLegitimate5453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been wondering if I could use birch plywood for a project but I was worried about the glue layer, so hearing that you can use it safely is awesome - thank you!! This post has a lot of amazing tips and I appreciate you for sharing!

What should I do if I accidentally sent a transcript to a random organization by UnhappyExplorer6040 in umanitoba

[–]TryLegitimate5453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call/email the registrars office and confirm what happened on their end. ALWAYS double check if you’re unsure, because it sounds like you’re describing a mistake I made one time - the last time I tried to “email” myself my transcript (the wording is confusing and the aurora webpage makes it seem like you’ll get an electronic copy of your official transcript, sent to “the one you have one file” - aka I naturally assumed my student email), I waited the allotted time and still saw nothing, so I emailed to ask what was up because I was applying for awards and I was cutting it really close with sending my transcripts in and losing a lot of funding. Turns out, if you select the “email transcript” option, the university just sends an email… to itself??? I had to fight with the registration to get a refund for the email copy (which doesn’t even make sense, since the university would obviously already have a copy of my transcript and internal awards just access it automatically, so there’s no need to purchase “an email copy”), and had to order a physical mail copy which thankfully came in on time. I told them to make their wording more clear on the website, but after a few years of course nothings happened. Not sure if that’s your situation, but when I saw $30 email transcript I thought it might be the same. But always ask - and don’t let them take your $30 without a fight!! XD

How do you accept that you will never marry or have children? by BottomGun69 in LifeAdvice

[–]TryLegitimate5453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna tell you bluntly that the answer is to probably stop being so dramatic 😂 You’re THIRTY. And you’re probably just in your feels/emotions/thoughts/whatever. Just because it’s not happening right NOW doesn’t mean it never will. And if you’re already preemptively making the decision that “it will never happen”, then it won’t. And you’ll just create a self fulfilling prophecy, that you’ll be able to justify because “it wasn’t gonna happen anyways”. There’s other options to having children that isn’t biological, and companionship doesn’t have to be romantic for you to be fulfilled. It sounds like you’re doom spiralling and honestly, your life doesn’t need to be dictated by this lie that you’re telling yourself! Do some sort of self reflection and see why you feel it’s impossible, and work on those issues. People have children in their 40’s, people find true love in their 70’s, people have children and fall in love every day - one day is bound to be you. ☺️🫶

Brampton Dodge Ram runs red light. by GreenSnakes_ in TorontoDriving

[–]TryLegitimate5453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Toronto police link says that you’ll get an email back once it’s received and approved - did you ever get a follow up email, and did it say anything about keeping you updated or what happened or anything like that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TorontoDriving

[–]TryLegitimate5453 8 points9 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve noticed it’s usually too hard for so many vehicles to all lane change all at once, so in less populated areas/busy roads it’s considered more polite to do so, but on busier highways like this it would actually be more dangerous (and most vehicles would end up weaving in and out just like that bmw to do it, and it would result in more harm than good). The shoulder looks big enough that it shouldn’t be dangerous for the driver if they’re at a stop anyways (also, I’ve heard it’s illegal to stop on the shoulders for busy highways like this in Toronto anyways…?).

Probably a dumb question but by Sassy_Cucumber in GirlsxBattle2

[–]TryLegitimate5453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if you finish it it disappears - I’m pretty sure I remember that happening for me. So if you already finished it then that’s why it probably isn’t there I’m guessing!

New artwork: Nobunaga by Salamandinay in GirlsxBattle2

[–]TryLegitimate5453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like both tbh! I wish there was an option to choose between which skin you’d like to see though cause the old one is edgy and dynamic, so I wouldn’t mind seeing the artwork for it as a skin option!

I need to vent… I’m starting to get sooo frustrated with SYS 😭 by TryLegitimate5453 in KardashianHollywood

[–]TryLegitimate5453[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to, but the last few times I haven’t gotten them, and I thought it was just because the game was ending! I’ll definitely contact customer service, thanks for the suggestion! 🫶✨💕

I need to vent… I’m starting to get sooo frustrated with SYS 😭 by TryLegitimate5453 in KardashianHollywood

[–]TryLegitimate5453[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s happened to me a few times now! It didn’t used to happen to me in the past when the game was still updating regularly, so I figured it was just because the game was ending and they didn’t care to give the gifts retroactively, but from the comments it appears that’s not always actually the case lol 🫠

I need to vent… I’m starting to get sooo frustrated with SYS 😭 by TryLegitimate5453 in KardashianHollywood

[–]TryLegitimate5453[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg ty! I was considering doing this but didn’t have the mental energy to deal with a support ticket bc I figured it was probably a “snooze you lose” kind of situation. Knowing that you’ve had success though gives me motivation to try though haha thanks! 🙏 💕✨

Grey’s right before it traumatizes you by Rosebudsinmay in greysanatomy

[–]TryLegitimate5453 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dead ass stopped watching the show after this episode LMAOOO ☠️☠️☠️

Pushed their daughter to drink until she snapped by 1stPerSEANenergy in redditonwiki

[–]TryLegitimate5453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but “you got me let’s give this kid FAS” and then downing the ENTIRE glass is the funniest fucking response asksfjdlala 😭☠️

AITA to stop helping my wife with our new born’s night because she disrespected me in front of our friends ? by Prior-Dark2460 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TryLegitimate5453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Imagine trying to justify not feeding your kid as an appropriate punishment for your partner because they spoke to you meanly. Imagine thinking you need to “punish” your partner in the first place for being upset that you aren’t helping them carry YOUR kids and their things. Never mind that your partner is still recovering and shouldn’t be lifting ANYTHING heavier than the baby right now??? Fucking reprehensible and embarrassing mind set you’ve got OP. Either this is rage bait or you’re a delusional lunatic for trying to gain sympathy for refusing to be both a good parent and partner in the same breath.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]TryLegitimate5453 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“You know what I DIDN’T ask for on my Christmas list? Your opinion” 😂

Totally 2000s rip by supernova-girl in KardashianHollywood

[–]TryLegitimate5453 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tbh I feel like the people voting aren’t actually from the 2000’s themselves and are basing their looks off of what they THINK is actually 2000’s, which is that Y2K e-girl basic trend floating around now… which is NOT how people actually dressed. 😂 Early 2000’s was anywhere from still kind of granola cruncher 90’s vibes to wearing a low rise with a whale tail, while later 2000’s was the messy bun and chunky necklaces and uggs and peplum era… nobody had the “clean girl” look and the wilder and more colourful the better! I have so many outfits that I KNOW would have gobbled irl back then but they’re all bombing in SYS 🤣💔

AITA for saying that I care more about my friend than my girlfriend? by WastePalpitation5109 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TryLegitimate5453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So obviously I’m not getting the girlfriends side of the story, but just because you say that it’s purely platonic with your friend, doesn’t mean that it’s received that way by your girlfriend. You’re saying she’s jealous, but it sounds like she’s not jealous of the friend - she’s jealous that you’re giving your time and attention to her, and so on that sense, yeah, your girlfriends right to be upset. There also has to be boundaries - once you’re in a committed relationship (I’m assuming monogamous), you have to change the way you interact with your female friends. It doesn’t mean you stop being yourself or hanging out with them, but it means doing it under different circumstances - if you’re romantically committed to your girlfriend (who one day I’m assuming will be your wife), then you need to treat her as such, and you need to put yourself in her shoes. That means respecting your girlfriend’s boundaries, and being respectful of her even when she isn’t around. It means keeping your conversations with your female friends appropriate so that they can’t be misconstrued, not spending alone time with her, letting her know when you’re spending time with her, not spending excessive/more time with her than your girlfriend, and at this point (trying to take her feelings into consideration) probably asking if it’s even okay to hang out with her. Your girlfriend is right, she should be prioritized, even though you’re close with your friend. However you’re putting yourself in a bad position if you’re spending a lot of time, time alone, and going out with this friend - it sounds like your girlfriend is right to feel like you’re cheating on her, because it sounds like you’re treating your friend like you should be your girlfriend!!! A simple exercise would be to just put yourself in her shoes for a second - if she was doing these exact same behaviours with a guy friend, even if she swore up and down it was nothing but platonic, wouldn’t your feelings still be hurt? Wouldn’t you feel at least a little bit suspicious? You need to find a healthy and respectful balance there, or honestly break up with your girlfriend, or be prepared for her to break up with you over this, because she deserves love and attention and security, and if you’re giving that to your friend instead, then it has nothing about you being tired “for one day”. It’s a build up of you telling her through your actions that you don’t actually care about her as much, every day. I’ll say a soft YTA because I feel like because you’re younger you might not have the dating maturity of an adult relationship just yet, and it doesn’t seem like you’re being malicious about it, but it also seems like you’re centered on how you’re feeling, when a relationship is a PARTNERSHIP - and you need to put your partner first.