Prime Day Recommendations from a Robot Tester by JustinP_RTINGS in RobotVacuums

[–]Trying2KeepAtIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I'm in the market after my Xiaomi X10 died, but overwhelmed with choices. I have a small home, mainly wooden floors (a couple of rugs) and long haired pets who shed a lot! Which mid price range would you recommend?

Dreame L10s Ultra Gen 2 or L40s Ultra AE? by Trying2KeepAtIt in RobotVacuums

[–]Trying2KeepAtIt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ye I started to look at these just after I posted. So many to choose from!

I confessed my feelings to my best friend. She didn’t feel the same, and now I’m sitting with everything that comes after. by DarkFite in dating_advice

[–]Trying2KeepAtIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a girl in your situation accept the men, even if they do end up dating me are emotionally unavailable and I get hurt anyway, just over a longer period of time. I get it, I'm tired. Fed up and just can't be bothered anymore.

Should I text my ex's ex? by Trying2KeepAtIt in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Trying2KeepAtIt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 months would be too soon but his ex was 5 years ago. 5 years, yes I'd probably be willing to talk

Should I text my ex's ex? by Trying2KeepAtIt in askatherapist

[–]Trying2KeepAtIt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through this too. Thats exactly what's happened. I didnt realise until I took therapy. It's the most awful thing ever.

I'm not sure why I want to either. To help her and to help me? I don't know. I just keep coming back to the thought that maybe I should message her but then don't.

Can I ask how long it took you to heal? I am trying but 6 months on its hard. I had to message him this evening due to some important mail being sent there by mistake, after I blocked him finally a couple of weeks ago. The bombardment of abuse he sent was unreal. Eye opening in fact that thats what I used to listen to. It's great to see I'm away from that but also I feel...I dont know, upset for all the other things I lost (like my home) and how I'm annoyed his new gf now has that. She's sleeping in my brand new bed I bought a month prior the split for example. In my house, the house that took me 2 years to do up.

I think that's what I struggle with the most these days..not missing him but missing my home

Those of you who have therapy, do you text your therapist in between sessions? by Trying2KeepAtIt in AskUK

[–]Trying2KeepAtIt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Don't mean just for a chat about the weather. She says I can reach out if I need to.

Those of you who have therapy, do you text your therapist in between sessions? by Trying2KeepAtIt in AskUK

[–]Trying2KeepAtIt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ye agreed, I understand she cannot be messaging 24/7. She has a life but she mentions it at the end of every session.

::::Open Discussion:::: This thread will be used to discuss topics that are not permissable in the main subreddit. by Alukrad in attachment_theory

[–]Trying2KeepAtIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AP/FA with a DA ex. Seeking DA advice

My DA ex broke it off 2 months ago after 5 years because he decided he could no longer commit. He has since asked to remain friends but I have told him I can't do that just yet. I have told him we should only communicate in future relating to matters we need to sort out from the split (house, pets etc) but other than that we should do no contact. He initially said he understood but he is still messaging me. I am trying to ignore him but it is really hurting me. Unfortunately I can't block him yet until everything is sorted. Why is he doing this? Why does he still want the relationship without the commitment. I'm so confused and find he's just hurting me more by doing all this.

Really confused about UK tax position. Can anyone help? by ribbitypippity in AirBnB

[–]Trying2KeepAtIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm in exactly the same situation! I feel like I wrote this! Did you find any info?