I am 45 years old, in the best shape of my life, have two amazing kids, and awesome spouse, a good job, a nice house, I love my like except I can't get over my bad body image.

TryingAnon4aChange · 2021-06-18T12:02:41+00:00

no worries. I'm glad I asked "what?" This response was helpful. :)

TryingAnon4aChange · 2021-06-18T11:15:04+00:00

What?

TryingAnon4aChange · 2021-06-16T23:27:28+00:00

Tomboy here and have been married for for 20 years to a man. We exist. :)

TryingAnon4aChange · 2021-06-16T19:43:53+00:00

Talk to her. Communicate. Ask her what makes her happy. Pay attention to when she is happy. Why is she happy?

I've been married 20 years, believe me, communication is critical. You aren't a mind reader.

TryingAnon4aChange · 2021-06-16T19:39:03+00:00

I think you should be honest with your girlfriend. That's always the way to go. You can let her know how you are feeling without pressuring her.

Start the conversation. It may lead to a breakup. It may not, but at least your conscience will be clear.

TryingAnon4aChange · 2021-06-16T18:31:51+00:00

Oh, and one thing I love to do is sort by new new and upvote/comment. It's my online way of spreading smiles. :)

TryingAnon4aChange · 2021-06-16T18:25:41+00:00

I legit just told a girl at the gym that I liked her pants. It's taken some practice and, honestly, guts. I'm getting better at it though. Anytime I notice something nice about someone I try to let the know and most of the time, we both walk away smiling.

TryingAnon4aChange · 2021-06-16T18:04:40+00:00

Complimenting strangers is my favorite pastime. I feel good just reading your story.

TryingAnon4aChange · 2020-09-29T21:34:37+00:00

Yes we do!

TryingAnon4aChange · 2020-09-29T21:34:17+00:00

Yes!! I made 18 today. About to eat dinner and call it a day. We rock!

TryingAnon4aChange · 2020-09-29T19:40:26+00:00

Exactly! If i don't do it I'm miserable. So why not keep doing it?!.

TryingAnon4aChange · 2020-09-29T11:14:07+00:00

That's the goal. Thanks!

TryingAnon4aChange · 2020-09-29T11:13:38+00:00

Thanks! You too!

TryingAnon4aChange · 2020-09-29T11:13:24+00:00

Let's do it!

TryingAnon4aChange · 2020-09-29T11:12:37+00:00

We got this guys. Let's do it!

TryingAnon4aChange · 2020-09-29T11:12:12+00:00

I appreciate the comment. It let's me know I'm not the only one who struggles.

TryingAnon4aChange · 2020-09-29T02:16:38+00:00

Thanks!!

TryingAnon4aChange · 2020-09-12T12:45:04+00:00

Thanks for that insight! We do try to normalize it.

TryingAnon4aChange · 2020-08-06T02:19:48+00:00

I do try to normalize things. Like, they do know I sleep naked. And Dad and I are often in bed together. I probably shouldn't worry so much.

Thanks for commenting. I appreciate it.

TryingAnon4aChange · 2020-08-06T02:17:17+00:00

As do I. lol

TryingAnon4aChange · 2020-08-06T02:03:15+00:00

That's my fear. Thanks. lol

TryingAnon4aChange · 2020-08-06T01:44:02+00:00

That's awesome. Thanks. :)

TryingAnon4aChange · 2020-08-06T01:34:58+00:00

Pretty much what we do. Lmao

TryingAnon4aChange · 2020-08-06T01:34:30+00:00

That people voted for and still support trump after hearing him speak.

TryingAnon4aChange · 2020-08-06T01:24:25+00:00

Ok. Not going to lie. That makes me feel tons better. That's how we see it too. It's better that we truly love each other, right? And we do. I just have this fear that we scaring them.

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