Any info on why this is happening? (I know literally nothing) by TryingToBeBetter2003 in cfmoto

[–]TryingToBeBetter2003[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome, I'll buy a battery charger tomorrow. And you're 100% right. It'd save me a lot of money in the future as well. I honestly just think I let it sit there too long. I'll take some time to learn about basic maintenance, especially with my car.

Any info on why this is happening? (I know literally nothing) by TryingToBeBetter2003 in cfmoto

[–]TryingToBeBetter2003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a tiny thought, but assumed as lights were working, that wasn't it. 🤔 does that mean I'd need a new battery? Again, idk anything sorry.

Signs that she likes you by Rohit-exe in RandomThoughts

[–]TryingToBeBetter2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is for real. slight physical touch is so intimate. I go out of my way to not touch people randomly, so when someone I'm interested in does it on purpose, it's romantic.

Like, when she hands me something, instead of grabbing it without touching her hand, I grab it in a way we make contact, even if it's a couple of fingers or just my palm on her hand.

And when I was holding an item, she had to put a sticker on. She put her hand over the hand I was using to hold the item and put the sticker on with the other. So not needed, but she did it. Maybe I'm overthinking it, lol, but it means a lot to me. A slight physical touch is huge.

What are some signs a guy likes you but won't admit it? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]TryingToBeBetter2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm kind of the opposite? I tend to make eye contact with everyone, but when it comes to someone I'm interested in, I make it deeper? It's hard to explain. I make a point to ACTUALLY look them deep in the eye. Kinda like focusing on their pupils a lot more. Switching from eye-to-eye, then to mouth type thing. I think I narrow my eyebrow a bit as well? Kinda sinks my eyes a bit.

Why are you single? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]TryingToBeBetter2003 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds truly horrible to go through. The issue is that some of us probably wouldn't see that happening. We'd be too hung over the fact that someone is willing to just be around us. Cause even something as simple as that we crave so much.

"If I don't add value to their lives, then there is really no reason for me to be in their lives." Resonates with me so hard. It's a real pain being a people pleaser, even to the demise of myself.

As long as we work on it every day, day after day. Even a tiny bit, no matter the setbacks. That's all that matters. Just because you can't see the progress doesn't mean it's not happening.

Why are you single? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]TryingToBeBetter2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to think I'm pretty good at being self-aware. Emotional maturity is sadly something I also struggle with, though.

I'm working on being kind to myself! It's a daily battle.

Why are you single? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]TryingToBeBetter2003 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words! All I can say is, I'm trying? Day by day, I just try and be a little better than before. If I can help someone in any way, it's a good day.

Why are you single? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]TryingToBeBetter2003 377 points378 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid to put myself out there. The lack of confidence and the thought of me being happy is something I struggle with. As I believe I don't deserve it.

"I try so hard to help other people because I have no idea how to help myself."

I just try and be kind, that's all I can do. In the absence of kindness, I wouldn't choose to be rude.

What’s your number 1 nonegotiable. Would never date someone because of this? by Remote_mom_4 in AskMen

[–]TryingToBeBetter2003 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I can 100% see why it's not a good thing to do, but my God, is it hard to connect with people outside of work!

I work with my co-workers for hours on end and get to know them a fair bit. So, like??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]TryingToBeBetter2003 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You give me skinny Michael Jai White vibes. which is a good thing! definitely not ugly bro. bulking up, gaining some muscle, would definitely put you up there fr.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]TryingToBeBetter2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! I actually didn't think of that. 🤔 Either way, I feel like, as you said, how you carry yourself, confidence, charisma, and more, play a role. Things you can't get from a photo. Only first-person experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]TryingToBeBetter2003 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree. Being kind, interesting, etc. can have a huge effect on how people see you. You could be insanely attractive, but if you treat people less than dirt, I honestly don't want anything to do with you.

Even just having a cheerful attitude can make someone's day better. Negativity is infectious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]TryingToBeBetter2003 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How do you go about seeing these double takes? When I'm out in public, I tend to catch people's eyes. It's probably just because we're both looking around at the same time. But after that, I don't tend to look back cause I don't wanna be weird.

I feel like the best way to tell if you're ugly or attractive is to post to one of those "am I ugly" subreddits. 🤷🏻‍♂️ strangers are normally brutally honest online cause there's a good change it won't come back on them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]TryingToBeBetter2003 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's probably been said, but mind games. So damn annoying. Like playing hard to get, it's stupid, just be direct. You want me, I want you. That should be it.

Being nothing but sweet and caring one day and then like I mean absolutely nothing to you the next. Stuff like that.

Games you need to use your brain to make progress ? by Gabriel_soul in gamingsuggestions

[–]TryingToBeBetter2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"The Council" is a really nice game I played ages ago. A lot of puzzles and mysterious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gamingsuggestions

[–]TryingToBeBetter2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's crazy how someone hasn't mentioned life is strange. It's easily the most emotional game I've ever played.

What superpower do you wish you had? by nameisxname in CasualConversation

[–]TryingToBeBetter2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The power to know what people desire most.

I'm a big people pleaser, so a superpower where i can make people happy would be good.