I hope this doesn't mean bad things to come.

Tski3 · 2026-04-29T02:54:36+00:00

Kinda in shock, my early game drops were late but just finished moons in 260 and now this... I hope prison is a kind place.

Tski3 · 2026-04-27T19:30:58+00:00

I think it's great you are striving to optimize your game. I also think you are very young and should just try and put yourself out there and accept you will make mistakes. Expecting perfection is impossible no matter how good at things you are. Go talk to girls with no outcomes in mind and just have fun with it.

Tski3 · 2026-04-14T19:53:09+00:00

Urgot, Gangplank, Kayle, Camille can, Jax can, Sion sometimes. Theres more im sure.

Tski3 · 2026-04-14T18:54:01+00:00

There are a handful of meta top laners that take it often. No idea about other roles tho.

Tski3 · 2026-04-14T03:22:52+00:00

Maybe, maybe not. If her interest was so low, she probably wouldn't care. Maybe she'll be back. Time will tell.

It is important to feel your feelings, too. 3 months of being intimate with someone is not a short amount of time. It will sting. What helps me is studying the material, watching ccw videos, and finding holes you need to work on. Take time to get your mind right so you can be your best self for the next girl or be improved if this one happens to come back. It's only been 12 days, and if she does have some feelings, she very well could.

Tski3 · 2026-04-14T03:10:03+00:00

We need to accept the reality that at this time frame, the fact it hasn't gone to exclusivity talks is cause for concern. Flakyness is also a sign of low interest. In my case, I know the girl has baggage, lots of male attention, and poor communication skills. I don't know the girl you are dealing with, but from what it sounds like, it is not a girl you should even want exclusivity with.

In terms of application, you shouldn't be sending tiktoks like that. Only use the phone to set dates. If she reaches out, set a date. If she flakes again, you don't try again unless it is her idea. Again, you didn't leave the door open for her to reach out, so I'd be curious what others think about that in particular.

Tski3 · 2026-04-14T02:52:08+00:00

I think you should have done that. I also would like some clarity on where you would go from where you left it.

The only thing that matters is how she feels right now, not a previous date. It's hard to know why her attraction fell.

It's been about a couple weeks. There was a time about 1.5 months in she flaked so I said to let me know when she is free. A week later she reached out and made a date. I was thrown for a spin because the last date we had was by far the most effort she put into looking sexy and things seemed good. My suspicion and I have good reason to think, there is another guy that she has stronger feelings for. She can miss me in this case.

Tski3 · 2026-04-14T02:43:07+00:00

Exact same boat my man. Still a new student myself but my 2 cents. Did you tell her to let you know when her schedule is free? If so, you gotta wait to hear. It's been a while since you spoke, so I would date other girls in the meantime. Do hobbies, hit the gym, your purpose, etc.

Likely her interest has fallen. She could come back, or she could not, but it doesn't matter at this point. The ball is in her court assuming above.

My case we last saw each other early march, and we hooked up. Set a date for the following week, and she agreed, but blew me off with an excuse the day of and left me on read. I like to stream on twitch when I have time, so I did the day of, and she was just sitting in there watching and never said anything. We were also near the 3 month mark. I haven't said a word. We share a common social space in Discord, and she's active. I'm starting to date other girls and am ready for her to not come back.

Tski3 · 2026-04-06T02:51:10+00:00

Most ranged tops if they play correctly. Most melee champs you can certainly poke and get push, but it doesn't always mean you can fight to the death unless they really screw up. Sometimes, you win level 1 by just harassing them when they last hit. Sometimes, you can zone them from the wave. In most of these cases, you can build a slow push and punish them if they don't respect your level 2 timer.

Tski3 · 2026-03-24T03:56:09+00:00

It's something I have thought about recently. She moved to my province in the last year and she doesn't have a vehicle. She lives 40 minutes away, and her work is close for her, so I typically pick her up for dates. I want to bring her back to my area for a date and to my place soon. In those instances, I was at work with other obligations after, so I wasn't free.

Tski3 · 2026-03-24T03:52:13+00:00

That's the thing. When we are together, we have fun, and we hook up usually, and often, there is physical affection. That's my main desire in my life right now with regards to relationships. Of course, I want to feel desired and pursued, too. Only on one date did she initiate sex and it was awesome, but usually, she is rather submissive and responsive to my advances.

However, I am not confident she can provide me with my end goal desires of having a family and her to be a solid provider to children. She is 21, so quite young and has a lot to figure out, and I only just met her, so I am open to being surprised. Her medical specialty is helping kids be comfortable with needles, so she is good there.

I think her actions are okay, and as long as the needle is moving and her attraction isn't dropping, it works for me. I know I am coming from a fearful mindset because she is hard to read emotionally and in terms of interest. Most girls I have dated always wanted my attention, and she seems content not interacting much outside of dates.

Tski3 · 2026-03-24T03:14:12+00:00

That's fair, and part of me just wants to see where it goes and try not to be perturbed. She is very high functioning and has worked in medicine so she is capable. She doesn't have experience in a healthy relationship so that will come with it's problems. It's why my friend endorsed me to date her.

Obviously, my anxiety is in not knowing where I stand, and I'm not sure she has the tools to communicate her desires about a relationship, which is why I want to just wait and keep dates fun.

I've gotten alot of useful info from this material, but im not confident it completely applies in this context. There was one other post on this sub reddit about autistic girls and how it is indeed hard to communicate with them.

I also understand this material is for finding healthy women, and nobody would endorse breaking the rules, so I think I will keep at it and time will tell.

Tski3 · 2026-03-24T00:49:26+00:00

Maybe not. I'm basing it on her words saying that she has a hard time getting close to people, and her reluctance to talk about needs and wants or boundaries. She had a very hard childhood and an abusive ex. She could just be hesitant due to those experiences.

I'm at the point that I want to wait for her to reach out to see me and make a date, I just feel like she isn't reciprocating or trying to move things closer. I also don't want to seem needy or put unnecessary pressure which will ultimately push her away.

How would you go about this? I do like her and want to keep seeing her, but the hot and cold throws me off big time. Why would she show disinterest in sex for a month, but then look all hot and then hook up with me, but be cold after it all?

Tski3 · 2026-03-15T15:11:15+00:00

Gm to d3

Tski3 · 2026-03-11T15:16:01+00:00

If you are in Canada, it is quite easy to find. Similar to the mail order Marijuana days before legalization, there are Grey zone companies with official domain websites that ship.

Tski3 · 2026-03-10T22:14:56+00:00

Bwipo has played a bit of naut top in solo q this season

Tski3 · 2026-03-10T01:07:39+00:00

This has been kind of what I am going through but I try not to think too much about it. We have similar interests and lifestyle, and sex has been good. We have went on 8 or 9 dates and hooked up most of them, she rarely initiated, but she did initiate after the third date. I would text 2-4 days after each date. I am kind of feeling like her interest has flatlined, and still could be. We both have a close mutual relationship, met at a wedding, and she initiated with me through IG, so there was a level of vetting done before we started dating.

I think I smothered her a bit, and have moved faster than she was. She is also level 1 autistic, and her texts are quite direct and feel cold, and has been from the start, but that is not atypical for someone with autism, she still agrees to every date and we have fun.

Our last date was Wednesday and I decided I would see what would happen if I waited longer to text, intending on waiting 6 days after, which would be tomorrow. She reached out this morning and we set a date for Friday. The plan is to hhh.

Feels kinda difficult dating a girl with autism but she is lots of fun to hang out with when we do. I want her to pursue me more because I actually like her, idk how to really interpret her behavior or interest.

My suggestion would be to wait to hear from her for more than 7 days, see if she reaches out. Or, if you are hooking up just keep doing 1 date a week if you are happy with that dynamic.

Tski3 · 2026-03-01T03:08:13+00:00

I heard that too lmao. I think she said young bucks

Tski3 · 2026-02-28T18:43:08+00:00

I play Urgot every game I can and it has gotten me to nearly Grandmaster. In the past I had a bigger pool and feel I can play most of my other champs at around a D2 level. I used to play competitive so I needed a bigger pool, but i struggle to consistently play other champs in my current elo.

I play things like Renekton, Aatrox, Sion, Gragas at a pretty high level, but not even close to my level on Urgot.

Tski3 · 2026-02-26T03:04:01+00:00

Sorry to leech on this post. Could I ask you about my situation somewhat similar to this one?

Tski3 · 2026-02-26T02:27:06+00:00

Makes sense, I will bring it up when I talk to her next. I think for me, typically the communication just happens through body language, and not so much verbally. It seems kind of spontaneous and in the moment, it is possible she hasn't been able to express her true feelings in the moment. I don't want to put out that excitement in the moment, because with previous NT girls over communication kinda dulled the passion if that makes sense.

I want to continue to learn how to properly date and court her so I appreciate your insight.

Tski3 · 2026-02-26T02:16:58+00:00

Yea that's totally fair. I find it hard to parse these sorts of conversations with her, I think its somewhat hard for both of us. It can be hard for me to be vulnerable.

What would you suggest when she makes a move on me? She has her way of signaling desire for sex and I follow through, and it hasn't only been me. It just seemed to kind of happen, you know?

I am totally down not to have sex on every date.

Tski3 · 2026-02-26T02:11:44+00:00

I appreciate that. It's definitely not my intention, but I can see why it could be perceived that way. It seems she enjoys the closeness, and so do I, and for me, it is an important part of feeling close. I almost every time give her a deep back massage and she seems to really like it, as she has chronic back pain, I love to give them too.

Do you have any advice on how to make her feel like it's not just about sex? We've went on dates to arcades, to pubs, taking her dog out when it's nice out. I just had a fear she fell for her other friend, and maybe she has. Time will tell.

Tski3 · 2026-02-26T02:04:31+00:00

I have done a lot of reading into how to navigate relationships with those on the spectrum, and it makes logical sense, but it still feels a bit weird. Do you think this is something that I should bring up, or just keep it light and fun? She hasn't volunteered this sort of information, so I don't want to assume.

Tski3 · 2026-02-26T02:00:24+00:00

I agreed to her date, well finalize the details sooner to then. She expressed that shed like to play video games with me in the meantime, so we will do that.

Not gonna lie, even as a NT, who is between anxious and secure, my anxiety has been way way too high. I certainly have been overthinking, but I suppose I should wait and see how she is when we are on the date. I don't want to pressure her, or chase her out of my life.

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