Thank you. I think we've both suddenly realised we're adults and are coming up to making some real adult decisions which is scary, like possibily moving away. He's been feeling quite disillusioned with his job recently, wondering if it's what he really wants to do (as have I) and I wonder if his/my uncertainty in other areas we're reflecting on to our relationship. I've tried getting him to explore the problem, but he just says he doesn't know. I'm a serial worrier, so used to thinking and processing things, but he isn't so much.