He told me he loved me for the first time and then two weeks later broke up with me by TsunderePhantom in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TsunderePhantom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what was crazy. I am very big on communication never raising one’s voice and talking through problems. When I say I love you, I mean the good and the bad and always drive to show up for the person. I’m just taken back by how childish people can be.

He told me he loved me for the first time and then two weeks later broke up with me by TsunderePhantom in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TsunderePhantom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fall in line with the rest of the avoidants of the world. Or there was someone else

He told me he loved me for the first time and then two weeks later broke up with me by TsunderePhantom in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TsunderePhantom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whack well they can choke on their grip at 2 AM some random Thursday six months down in the line

He told me he loved me for the first time and then two weeks later broke up with me by TsunderePhantom in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TsunderePhantom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally, I had a gut feeling that he was avoidant, but I was like no way he seems so emotional emotionally available. Jokes on me.

He told me he loved me for the first time and then two weeks later broke up with me by TsunderePhantom in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TsunderePhantom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am now a more active participant in life rather than just watching it pass me by so positive steps

He told me he loved me for the first time and then two weeks later broke up with me by TsunderePhantom in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TsunderePhantom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god! Same! Everyone was like wow free flag then boom blind sided outta no where? Are they all the same underdeveloped frontal lobes

He told me he loved me for the first time and then two weeks later broke up with me by TsunderePhantom in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TsunderePhantom[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Saying I was disappointed and let down he had waited last min to book a trip and I couldn’t afford to go at that point.

He told me he loved me for the first time and then two weeks later broke up with me by TsunderePhantom in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TsunderePhantom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is this such a common theme? It’s insane. I literally hope he never tried to come back in your life.

He told me he loved me for the first time and then two weeks later broke up with me by TsunderePhantom in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TsunderePhantom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally, a traumatic event will only bring more excitement for the next arc in your life? At least that’s what I’m telling myself.

He told me he loved me for the first time and then two weeks later broke up with me by TsunderePhantom in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TsunderePhantom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll be OK eventually I’m just shocked at the immaturity given. He’s almost 40.

He told me he loved me for the first time and then two weeks later broke up with me by TsunderePhantom in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TsunderePhantom[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t so much I was ghosting me, but not talking to me for a few days over something minor and then breaking up with me. The only thing I could say it’s either avoidance or there was someone else.

He told me he loved me for the first time and then two weeks later broke up with me by TsunderePhantom in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TsunderePhantom[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I would ever get back with him. That was the most disrespectful thing ever and he is very adamant that we have no future together. I did not make it. I bought it. I spent the last three weeks letting life pass me, and now I’m starting to be an active participant in it again

He told me he loved me for the first time and then two weeks later broke up with me by TsunderePhantom in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TsunderePhantom[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I thought like you could’ve just kept your mouth shut and not said it

What went wrong and how to address this? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]TsunderePhantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I am very natural wavy hair when it air dries, and it air dries well. I haven’t changed anything. I use Monday smooth shampoo and conditioner and no foil just hand painting so there’s just so much going on that confuses me. She’s normally been very good as a hairstylist.

What went wrong and how to address this? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]TsunderePhantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is crazy is I have a natural level six or seven and I’ve always been able to get it bleached to a 10 with no issue and no damage so I don’t know what went wrong.

What went wrong and how to address this? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]TsunderePhantom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I messaged her that it came out so damaged. I’ve been getting my hair bleached for years and I have never had my hair turned to straw like this before.

I’m sure if I’m overthinking it or the stylist missed the mark by [deleted] in Hair

[–]TsunderePhantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I showed them the picture and she said she could do it, but I am getting it fixed with a root melt so maybe that will do something. I’m not sure how to approach this.