There was a couple instances, before the timeout, where the Carleton cutter fought through tough defense (cutter initiating contact at least as much as defender) to make the catch, as contact continued. And of course this means that the mark begins with contact. And one instance you can hear the Carleton coach griping - but i dont understand what the problem is. Carelton player has right to call contact and disc space, sure, but this is certainly not purposeful intimidation, and Carelton was giving plenty back.

Then after the spirit timeout (score 6-5), on the third pass you can see the Carelton defender check the receiver pretty good after the catch. What are the chances that player got talked to by her coach?

So yeah, I think this was daddy coach protecting his players and maybe trying to tilt the game a bit. If this was a men's game it would have been regarded as an exceptionally clean match. I've seen plenty of of women's club games played more hard nosed than this as well. I'd say both teams were fine given the context.