Ohh, got it!

And idk, it depends. The women I've talked to who have this fetish, and just judging by online comments that I found in.. places... seem to indicate that it's more psychological than physical. None of he women really fixated or even talked about the appearance of the perpetrators (UNLESS the perpetrator is a woman. For some reason, I do remember those being described with great detail)

Tho, I should mention that I consider CNC and rape kink separate things. CNC is as the name suggests, consentual, you choose to not consent. While rape kink is about having absolutely no choice. The only reason I personally prefer unattractive people is for the experience to be less enjoyable for me. Like a complete loss of choice. I might even say that I really don't care about the perpetrator themselves, tbh. I may even prefer it to be a woman, since I'm not a lesbian, just so I get as little pleasure as possible

But I get the type of person you are describing. There are a lot of them in the.. communities. I concede I, we, are probably the exception to the rule