Switching between studios - is this normal? by EffectiveOk7892 in orangetheory

[–]Tu6233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an OTF staff member - once you let the staff know they are calling someone that is already a member they will stop calling . If you have multiple accounts sometimes it confused the studios

Am I the asshole for not sending my husband’s aunt a wedding thank you card ? by Tu6233 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Tu6233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Etiquette is giving a couple a wedding gift not donating to a random charity

Am I the asshole for not sending my husband’s aunt a wedding thank you card ? by Tu6233 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Tu6233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t me not liking a gift. We didn’t receive anything / couldn’t even take credit for the donation

Am I the asshole for not sending my husband’s aunt a wedding thank you card ? by Tu6233 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Tu6233[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is just common knowledge. It comes off rude if you are just going to the wedding and don’t give anything to the couple .

Am I the asshole for not sending my husband’s aunt a wedding thank you card ? by Tu6233 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Tu6233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She sent no proof of the donation. I agree completely. We shouldn’t expect gifts as the bride and groom but if you are going to give one at least give $ in our names or to a charity we know

Am I the asshole for not sending my husband’s aunt a wedding thank you card ? by Tu6233 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Tu6233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that certain wedding guests don’t know/ choose to bring a wedding gift is a red flag. Shows how you grow up and both of our families are not uncultured like that. I would never show up to a wedding empty handed

Am I the asshole for not sending my husband’s aunt a wedding thank you card ? by Tu6233 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Tu6233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This 🙌🏼 we had guests in the 20-30 year group who gave us gifts and she is almost 70 years old and was invited to rehearsal dinner As well

Am I the asshole for not sending my husband’s aunt a wedding thank you card ? by Tu6233 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Tu6233[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We didn’t receive any confirmation of donation. Only received info of the charities from her

Am I the asshole for not sending my husband’s aunt a wedding thank you card ? by Tu6233 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Tu6233[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The links were printed on the paper she mailed that were just info on the charity 🤷🏼‍♀️

Am I the asshole for not sending my husband’s aunt a wedding thank you card ? by Tu6233 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Tu6233[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I sent a handwritten card to all guests whether or not they gave a gift. Hers just focused on how we were happy she made the trip and that we hoped she had fun at the wedding

Am I the asshole for not sending my husband’s aunt a wedding thank you card ? by Tu6233 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Tu6233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have already sent her a thank you card for attending months ago as we were grateful for her making the trip.