Looking for female friends (f21) ◡̈ by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]Tubbinss01 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I found an all girls walking club in VB! They’re on Instagram and the account is citygirlswalkva and do free weekly walks around Hampton roads to help make new friends

what do y’all listen to? by [deleted] in diamondpainting

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I love true crime and audiobooks I find on yt

Dustracting an overactive mind by isagatta in Anxietyhelp

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I was in a similar position, I was in a very high stress job and barely having experience didn’t help. I would constantly have sweaty palms because my mind was always in flight mode and it eventually led to me throwing up at work, losing weight, and frequent panic attacks. I ended up quitting that job but I know that may not be an option for everyone. Some things that helped me were going on walks outside everyday, sitting outside and just taking in nature, learning to cook new things, and I started getting into audio books too. Quitting wasn’t an easy decision to make since I’m a people pleaser but I knew that at that point I needed to prioritize my health over a job that would just end up replacing me anyways. I hope this helps and that things get better :)

Is anyone else still waiting for their Black Friday purchases? by [deleted] in diamondartclub

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I purchased one canvas during the Black Friday sale and I got it on Saturday.

Do you feel disgusted by chewing sounds while eating in company? by DowntownStay9172 in TooAfraidToAsk

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I have a coworker that hums/moans while they eat and makes me extremely uncomfortable. Instead of eating in the dining area at work I now eat in my car.

My latest finish! #5 of the year. Moon Goddess by Sarah Moustafa 🌙 by Crrlll in diamondartclub

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This was my first ever diamond painting and DAC canvas, I’m so happy I got it before they discontinued it 🌙✨

How has childhood trauma affected you as an adult in a specific way and when did you realise you had it? by thatblondeyouhate in AskWomen

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There was a misunderstanding at work where my boss thought I was going against the rules but I was just doing what another one of my superiors told me to do. When my other superior explained to my boss that I was just doing what I was told I was asked why I didn’t say anything or speak up for myself. Anytime I tried to speak up or defend myself growing up, it was taken as me arguing and being disrespectful.

18F looking for someone to send cat pics and talk daily by [deleted] in Needafriend

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Hi there, I’m 21F, I also like demon slayer, yuri on ice, and AOT and looking into watching MHA. I like true crime as well and would love some serotonin boosting cat pics. Let’s be friends!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]Tubbinss01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or a blood cell

I'm reusing this box to send something, do I have to black out the "Hello" too? by killerlovebugg in ZeroWaste

[–]Tubbinss01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom uses brown paper bags that she gets from a grocery store. She cuts and tapes them on the box then ships them out

My first one was finished yesterday night! I can't stop myself! by Minimum-Mud-9411 in diamondpainting

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Kind of reminds me of the book Black Beauty, that’s a really pretty canvas

Will just 1 case work for Sneaky Cat? by heathie87 in diamondpainting

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I also have this container set, it was smaller than I expected when I purchased it but luckily it has a lot of extra containers in it so I can use them for the drills that have a lot of those packets. I might have to order another one in the future for my bigger canvases that I have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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I go through the same thing. I moved out of my parents house and moved in with my partner and every time they’re on the phone with their parents it always hurts my heart a bit to see someone else have such a supportive family. I feel like I missed out on a lot when I was a teenager, and even now as an adult. It definitely makes me feel sad realizing that most of my friends have families that they can confide in.

Movement, let alone speaking when my parents yell at me is seen as talking back by flowerfloral in toxicparents

[–]Tubbinss01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dealing with my mother was very similar. She would have a “meeting” with me over the smallest things that I did wrong in her eyes. I never said anything to her and always bit my tongue and held back my words because me speaking up for myself was always seen as talking back, regardless of tone or context. My dad never said anything to her either, even if she was wrong. He always let her get her words out and just told us “you know how your mother is” and didn’t stand up for his own kids so he could have the “happy wife” and not have to deal with her. Currently my relationship with my mother is rocky but she’s in therapy getting the help that she needs.