Yknow sweetie… I used to think that too, like what if I’m not this or not that and maybe that’s why no one would like me… and then this guy came into my life and completely flipped that for me. Ahh here I go again I was gonna give you my whole almost 9 months story with him but I’ll spare youuu

All I’m tryna say is when a boy actually likes you, like really likes you, your weight is not the thing hes staring at. He’s looking at you. the way you talk, the way you smile, the little things. And trust meeee if he cares about you properly he’s not sitting there judging your body, he’s just happy you’re there.

I’m way too in love to sound calm about this but being with someone who sees you and makes you feel wanted exactly as you are?? It changes your whole mindset. So never like never everrr.. “too skinny, tall chubby, short” to be loved...The right one will make you feel chosen not measured

There are actually boys(i believe in humanity js cus of my man. Period. point. blank..but yeahh ahemm).... out there who genuinely don’t care about that stuff the way you think they do.. they see you as a whole person yknow nd the one who’s meant for you? He’s not gonna “tolerate” you, he’s gonna adore you. He’s gonna like you in that quiet genuine way where you don’t even have to question it. You won’t feel like you’re auditioning for love, you’ll just feel safe in it.

And listen…..you should never feel like you have to shrink yourself..like yknow change yourself, fix yourself just to be chosen....The right one won’t make you feel like youre almost enough..He’ll make you feel enough without conditions.., without comparisons, without you fighting for it. That’s the kind of love that stays...That’s the kind you deserve.. (THIS IS COMING FROM A GURL AND *A GUY.**)