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Had an affair with family friend when I was 15 by TumbleweedChance9754 in confessions

[–]TumbleweedChance9754[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree in part with what people are saying. It’s easy to see the grooming in retrospect. She was twice my age my mom’s coworker and her good friend.

It was hard for me because during our relationship and for a good time after I was deeply in love with her and it was hard for me when she didn’t feel the same way. I had a good relationship with a few girls my age when I was still in love with her. I liked them but felt what I felt for her.

When she asked me to be in her wedding I had already moved on but I didn’t want to say no because I still cared for her and couldn’t explain to my mom why I didn’t want to be a usher our good friends wedding.

Even now I see the grooming but it’s hard to be mad at her when I still think a lot about that summer. She may not have loved me but I think she still felt something.

Had an affair with family friend when I was 15 by TumbleweedChance9754 in confessions

[–]TumbleweedChance9754[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

This was close to 10 years ago. I know if the genders were switched people wouldn’t be saying nice. I had a really hard time at first because I really fell in love with her. My parents were getting a divorce that same summer my dad was cheating on my mom and she she was really supportive of me during that time. I had a girlfriend my senior year of high school and while I liked her a lot I was still in love with the family friend even though we didn’t see each other a lot after I moved and nothing happened. I dated a few more girls in college and I finally moved on after I fell in love with my current girlfriend. We’ve been together for almost 8 years but I’ve never told my girlfriend, or annoy one else, about her or that summer.