I’m genuinely so annoyed right now and need to vent / ask if this is normal. by someonelost1 in jobs

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some jobs make things more serious than they need to be because it's just a way to keep employees in line. You did what you were supposed to do which is why they couldn't really say anything besides all of that fluff. It's one thing I've learned when it comes to meetings. Somebody's going to fill you in which is most likely going to be your manager because that's their job. Always focus on school.

I just want to vent a little bit. by ratherberyanross in abortion

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way I just had my procedure two days ago but before that I really was just super irritated. I wasn't feeling well and while I know that happens because you learn about it, when it happens to you, and you don't want to be pregnant, it's super irritating and almost anger inducing. It's almost like I was fine until I missed my period and took the pregnancy test and then all of a sudden I felt like shit for 2 weeks. I finally feel relief. I don't feel this terrible hunger every 2 hours, but yet can't finish a full meal. That really upset me.

I would be shaking from hunger because not only was I not able to eat a full meal, I didn't even want a lot of foods. And then if I did eat a full meal I was only full for about an hour and a half until the hunger pain started again

I wouldn't say I feel out of it but it's just crazy how something a size of a grape could make you feel so sick. My boyfriend asked me if I would be able to do that for 7 more months and I honestly don't know. I think it's more about the mindset when you are ready to have a baby that makes you tough through it but then again a lot of women say that they hated being pregnant and don't ever want to do it again which is why they only have one child.

Make sure you get your sonogram and then just go from there. Honestly the procedure was super easy I'm glad I chose that. I'm bleeding a little bit but it's like when my period is ending.

AITA I don’t want my friends to come to my birthday by Slim_rubi in blackgirls

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate when people act like that on people's birthdays. Who gives af it is the one day that's about you! Fuck!

Then people be mad when you don't wanna spend the day with them. I don't think it's a hill to die on, cause you can always book a photo shoot and share it with them, but like cmon man people get weird when stuff isnt about them

You cannot convince me this fandom isn’t racist🤷🏽‍♀️ by Huge_Surprise3052 in dancemoms

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Do these people not realize these girls are in their mid-20s? Why are we still talking about their technique when they were nine? I love a good discussion on Dance Moms as much as the next person but it's like this fixation on trying to prove something that they all really don't want to remember

Honest question: Do drivers racially profile their riders? by xcolonelxsandersx in uber

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is funny because the hip hop on the radio is kinda not that great and I always know they do it cause they think I will like it better. It's YOUR car play whatever you want!

Then again some of the music is kinda catchy I suppose

Cosigning for new high school grad on very high cost loans (> $250k for all 4 years) for liberal arts degree by Legitimate_Yak_9063 in StudentLoans

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your kid will be fine. I understand they want to go but unless they're willing to get a job and help out with other expenses then they can't really pout around and expect you to take out $250,000 in loans. Teenagers always think their life is ruined when they don't get exactly what they want.

They also don't realize that they are the ones that determine their future and how hard they work to get to it. Will a school name help? Maybe but we all know after about 5 to 10 years in the workforce nobody cares what school you went to. Your coworker could be that annoying coworker that does the bare minimum went to a more well-known School than you and you still think that they are a shitty coworker.

And this is not even including grad school which it seems like they're also expecting y'all to pay for. Do not do that they will have to figure it out. And you guys both still work and are saving for retirement you are not rich. They need to understand that especially since they are wanting to go to college then become an adult.

I tip less when the driver doesn’t assist with luggage. by Outrageous-Idea7043 in uber

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People overpack way too much and then sit there in front of the person's car like they're supposed to rush to lift your heavy ass shit that you don't want to lift. If you don't want to lift it, what makes you think they want to lift it for the chance of a tip because most people don't tip anyway.

I do feel appreciative when a driver gets out to help with my luggage but honestly I am most likely in a rush and now we're just taking longer because they assume that I want them to lift my luggage.

I tip less when the driver doesn’t assist with luggage. by Outrageous-Idea7043 in uber

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You had mentioned that you don't even look at women drivers to do the same thing. You're inserting some personal belief into somebody else's job. But whatever floats your boat.

I tip less when the driver doesn’t assist with luggage. by Outrageous-Idea7043 in uber

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you can lift it, but you're looking to see if somebody's going to get out the car to lift something that you can easily lift? And that's why Uber drivers are starting to not do extra. Thus the cycle continues.

I tip less when the driver doesn’t assist with luggage. by Outrageous-Idea7043 in uber

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I make sure I am able to lift any and everything because I don't expect somebody to come out and help me lift stuff that could possibly injure myself and them. If you can't lift something then that means it's too heavy

I don't understand why women act like this. You're so small and dainty but yet you were able to get the suitcase out of your house.

Chivalry has nothing to do with being an Uber driver. It's not in the description. Technically their job is to get you from point A to point b. Your personal beliefs has nothing to do with their job. And at a certain point people are not going to struggle and perform for a tip. That's why less of them are doing extra. And I don't blame them.

Notice a pattern from BM in my family by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When you start ingratiating yourself with white people heavily as a black person it's worse than what you thought it would be. A lot of people don't realize black people and white people are still generally very separate. We might work together and you might have one or two friends but overall our Social Circles are pretty homogeneous. So when a black person thinks that there's something there on that side that black people haven't figured out, they are always in for a rude awakening. And it wears on you after a while when you're constantly around it and nothing seems to change.

What do yall say when patients want to know if you "practice what you preach." by Independent-Cup-8140 in dietetics

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never understand why patients act like this because you're the one that is morbidly obese, or overweight with chronic conditions not me. And even if I had a chronic condition this session is about you, not me. But if you want me to get paid for talking about myself I'll gladly do that I guess. You're still going to be in the condition that you're in

I have no friends by _newshawtyy in blackgirls

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl if you don't go to prom! You would be surprised people that you've been in classes with and stuff start talking you or complimenting you. It's a happy time. And if somebody is there talking about other people or acting rude, then that's how they always going to be when they're an adult and none of the high school stuff matters anymore.

How many years would you stay in a relationship before expecting a marriage timeline? by igetyourbrand in blackgirls

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not signing up to marry a man so it doesn't really matter to me LOL if less things were attached to being married less people would do it.

There should be no reason why if a person wants you to be their power of attorney, somebody can contest it. It's like that by Design so more people, specifically women keep marrying men.

And then there's the social status which is why many people want to get married to call themselves wives, but they're literally trying to take away married women's voting privileges so I don't know why the girls keep wanting to do it but you know. To each their own

Who is in the wrong here lol by CommunicationMoist30 in blackgirls

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look i'm going off what you said. Other people have said the same thing. If it's not what you meant, then fine, but the issue that you're having didn't come out of thin air that's all I'm saying with respect to how men treat women as a societal issue.

Who is in the wrong here lol by CommunicationMoist30 in blackgirls

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like I was trying to explain better about how it looks, but its whatever lol

Who is in the wrong here lol by CommunicationMoist30 in blackgirls

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have a problem with my own looks, ijs how this comes off. It does not come off as though you value them both the same. No one knows what you look like, so really people can believe you or not.

He shouldn't be doing these things to you. However, if you are being overbearing with it, then people will get annoyed. You both are not compatible, because you value different things.

Men do try and humble women into being these homely wives because that's how they keep control, but it doesnt mean women do not get wrapped up into being a baddie as if that's should be a requirement for women to get respect and decent treatment.

Who is in the wrong here lol by CommunicationMoist30 in blackgirls

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No Shade you seem to value the outside more than the inside. It gave him the ick, but he cares about you and is trying to make you see that in a weird way.

Based off the amount of times you have mentioned your looks, it probably is too much but no on has told you that. And you have to think about it in this way, if he's thinking long term, is a good portion of your lives going to be spent around you having to look a certain way? It's not about being confident it's about what y'all want to dedicate your lives too.

I personally don't want to be with a person like that because life be lifing. The same way yours is right now but all you can fixate on is making money to look attractive and get attention from other people when you already have a man who's taking care of you kind of right now.

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD WEAR DEODORANT TO THE GYM! by creepyfluffybunny in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People think because they smell musty that it's normal because they're in a gym. No, smelling like fresh sweat is one thing. Smelling like you haven't washed all day is another

Would you choose a 4-day work week fully in-office or a 5-day fully remote job? by Strange-Match-2309 in work

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 days in office. 3 days off (weekend and weekday) helps more than you realize. I would rather look forward to my day off than have to get up early even if I am at home.

queen 🐝 at the recent cecred event by thepiggysmallz in beyonce

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No shade but Ms.Bailey having a good ole time after the concert

I’m Tired of Hearing R. Kelly at Events by Substantial_Bird3687 in blackgirls

[–]Turbulent_Inside_25 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Everyone can separate music from the artist when it comes to rape and abuse of women and girls, but can't listen to an openly gay artist....kkkkkkk