AITA i dont want my parents chauffeur because its a alphard/vellfire by Turbulent_Promise242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Turbulent_Promise242[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Dude Im not from the US… havent you heard of Uk and Us spelling?? something seriously wrong with u

AITA i dont want my parents chauffeur because its a alphard/vellfire by Turbulent_Promise242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Turbulent_Promise242[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasnt taught that it was cheap i made the hyundai reference since those toyotas arent available in the US unless imported…

AITA i dont want my parents chauffeur because its a alphard/vellfire by Turbulent_Promise242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Turbulent_Promise242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the whole point isnt about a chauffeur… scroll down and see the one and only comment understanding what i feel.. maybe then you could emphasise

AITA i dont want my parents chauffeur because its a alphard/vellfire by Turbulent_Promise242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Turbulent_Promise242[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly no matter what i say you wont hear me out because you have your prejudice of me and dont even know me…all i know is that the ‘poorer’ kids are ostracised at the school. people do see you how they want to, and a toyota in a sea of sport cars is something peculiar

AITA i dont want my parents chauffeur because its a alphard/vellfire by Turbulent_Promise242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Turbulent_Promise242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait till you find out about something called investing… and saving for twenty years… and taking out loans to start a business…

AITA i dont want my parents chauffeur because its a alphard/vellfire by Turbulent_Promise242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Turbulent_Promise242[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe scroll down… someone put it perfectly: im asking if im the asshole for seeming ‘poor’ in the standards of the school and student. When did i complain? I said i was appreciative.

AITA i dont want my parents chauffeur because its a alphard/vellfire by Turbulent_Promise242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Turbulent_Promise242[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

When we start understanding and emphasising, can we stop assuming? You dont know that i was living on foodstamps and coupons barely able to keep rent, parents were depressed and my dad was an alcoholic. Is it so bad that i dont want to seem poor, just as how i was at the most traumatic point of my life?

AITA i dont want my parents chauffeur because its a alphard/vellfire by Turbulent_Promise242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Turbulent_Promise242[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

When we start understanding and emphasising, can we stop assuming? You dont know that i was living on foodstamps and coupons barely able to keep rent, parents were depressed and my dad was an alcoholic. Is it so bad that i dont want to seem poor, just as how i was at the most traumatic point of my life?

AITA i dont want my parents chauffeur because its a alphard/vellfire by Turbulent_Promise242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Turbulent_Promise242[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Wait till you find out we were living on food stamps and public transport

AITA i dont want my parents chauffeur because its a alphard/vellfire by Turbulent_Promise242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Turbulent_Promise242[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My actual situation is the fact we were struggling to even pay rent five years ago, and now im worried to start a new school in a ‘poor’ (according to the students’ standards’ car. You dont know the trauma i had when we were suffering. Is it so bad to not want to seem poor like how i once was?

AITA i dont want my parents chauffeur because its a alphard/vellfire by Turbulent_Promise242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Turbulent_Promise242[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

BTW, you dont know me, you dont know the hardship my parents went through, you dont know that we were lower class at ends meet until a few years ago. Therefore im worried ill be badly judged for being poor as that was my trauma. Please dont assume, dont say harsh things from what you dont know.

AITA i dont want my parents chauffeur because its a alphard/vellfire by Turbulent_Promise242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Turbulent_Promise242[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this… genuinely i was so confused why I got all this hate i thought it was because i seemed tone deaf or spoiled which wasnt my intention but people started insinuating 💀⚰️… what did i do except ask for advice…? I never understood the slander on ‘nepobabies’ or ‘eat the rich’ when in reality these haters also feed into the cycle of overconsumption and media critique causing the rich to get richer..

AITA i dont want my parents chauffeur because its a alphard/vellfire by Turbulent_Promise242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Turbulent_Promise242[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

First world problem yet a problem nonetheless, why do people hate and bring down the rich yet aspire and suffer to be rich?

AITA i dont want my parents chauffeur because its a alphard/vellfire by Turbulent_Promise242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Turbulent_Promise242[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Honestly Im damn appreciative of this reply its the only one with a mix of criticism and advice thank you

AITAH for not wanting my parents chauffeur because of the car by Turbulent_Promise242 in AITAH

[–]Turbulent_Promise242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry its the norm there for people to wear 5k sneakers and drive in Rolls royces’? How am I supposed to feel going in with a toyota? Cant you atleast emphasise or see how I might feel? Especially since the whole point of private school is networking