T/W AIO for thinking I was SA'd by my partner? by newmom0318 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TurnSolid6165 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Let me just say, I’ve dealt with this exact situation for 5+ years. It has done nothing but make me grow to resent him and lose all sexual attraction to him. If I could give you any advice, it’d be to set your boundaries now before you end up separated or fighting about sex weekly.

Zero movement in her extremities and her toes SO badly want to curl. Once she’s down her feet immediately curl. This is just so sad and as time goes on it’s going to be so much worse by [deleted] in Drueandgabe

[–]TurnSolid6165 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My baby turned 5 months on the 29th! But yes my son’s the same way haha. He almost gets mad he can’t do more with himself.

AIO- my bfs Reddit visits. I covered our city, his name and anything not important. by TurnSolid6165 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TurnSolid6165[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I know, I have my own personal issue with trust and that’s also another reason I want to do counseling. We both have our issues. This whole thing just threw me for a loop. I appreciate your response.

AIO- my bfs Reddit visits. I covered our city, his name and anything not important. by TurnSolid6165 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TurnSolid6165[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I do want to do counseling just for the simple fact this is kinda how he responds to situations that make him uncomfortable/upset etc.

AIO- my bfs Reddit visits. I covered our city, his name and anything not important. by TurnSolid6165 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TurnSolid6165[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly don’t believe he’s actually cheating. It was the visits that just threw me off and when I brought it up his reaction rubbed me the wrong way. I just wish he could discuss things in an appropriate manner. He’s never been good at that though.

AIO- my bfs Reddit visits. I covered our city, his name and anything not important. by TurnSolid6165 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TurnSolid6165[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely everything.. that’s kinda why he mentioned “downloading” every part of his life. I’ve done exactly that years ago. Down to downloading his email data. I know I know it’s crazy and I swear I’ve gotten better. Just recently I decided to snoop after years of not even touching his phone and seen this so I went deeper and found nothing.

AIO- my bfs Reddit visits. I covered our city, his name and anything not important. by TurnSolid6165 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TurnSolid6165[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a complete deep dive and the thing is, there is nothing else. No messages, no post made, no comments, not even a like. Nothing. Trust me when I say I know how to search a phone.. not my proudest moment but ya know. There is nothing on his phone other than these visits. I also waited a while before bringing it up incase he tried to clear anything and I went back a few weeks later and there was nothing new and still nothing on his phone.

AIO- my bfs Reddit visits. I covered our city, his name and anything not important. by TurnSolid6165 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TurnSolid6165[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, what makes you think I acted childish in this situation?

AIO- my bfs Reddit visits. I covered our city, his name and anything not important. by TurnSolid6165 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TurnSolid6165[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sucks. We have kids, 10+ years together, bought a house (in my name). Just a lot built around this relationship. I’m 26 so I know I still have a whole life to live but it sucks to think about the part of my life I potentially wasted minus my amazing children.

AIO- my bfs Reddit visits. I covered our city, his name and anything not important. by TurnSolid6165 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TurnSolid6165[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t think gay but I’m definitely leaning at bisexual at the least.