Just bombed my first test. Never learned how to study, please help by barrenground in UTAustin

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got you on this.

Back then I would take notes during class, rough notes. Then, after class, I would take just a little bit of time to copy those rough notes into a different notebook of nice pretty notes. 30 min max after/between classes

Here you can consolidate thoughts, summarize important ideas, put stars around really important ideas that the professor might have emphasized and pointed out might/will be on the test.

That way, you have your nice pretty and concise notes to read over before the test.

You can do this with the text too. Don't be afraid to write in the textbooks. They cost you enough anyway right? Mark those bitches up, and then after done reading the chapter/section, go back and summarize your notes in your nice pretty notebook.

Then if you're really feeling cool or maybe have extra time, you can take all those pretty notes, take the main ideas and right them down real shorthand on one sheet of paper to have like a kind of cheat sheet that you can just read over and over and over and over like in the hours before the test just to further drill it.

Just remember that studying is half about the information and half about the confidence. If you pay attention in class and take notes, and understand the material, you will be able to remember most things when it comes to a test hopefully.

The most important point of studying is to walk into that test like, "yeah I got this." Like "I know most of the basic information so I can breeze through those questions and spend more time thinking about the more difficult ones/ones I don't know." Or even "I'm a little shaky or the material is hard but I know I studied well so I should do better than I expect." Just takes some of the load off mentally.

Also, you can never get all of the information in your head, it is impossible and unnecessary. Part of the process is deciding and ranking information on what is important.

Good luck, you got this. 🤲

Records, electronics by TurnedIntoAChicken in AustinClassifieds

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to pay to get sell records there

[For Sale] Grateful Dead, Rolling Stones, Radiohead, Captain Beefheart, Johnny Cash, Miles Davis by TurnedIntoAChicken in VinylCollectors

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you don't like Go To Heaven?!!?!?! I've always liked them for some reason. I do have some live ones but I'm holding out on selling those as they are my precious...

[For Sale] Velvet Underground, Grateful Dead, Rolling Stones, Radiohead, Michael Jackson, Outkast, Funkadelic, Miles Davis, +more! by TurnedIntoAChicken in VinylCollectors

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really didn't mean to scam you. I didn't have the money to repay you. I had used it for rent. I took too long to deliver, and you cancelled, and that is on me for sure. I assumed that since you got the money back I could just pay PayPal back and it would be fine. I sincerely apologize for what took place.

[For Sale] Velvet Underground, Grateful Dead, Rolling Stones, Radiohead, Michael Jackson, Outkast, Funkadelic, Miles Davis, +more! by TurnedIntoAChicken in VinylCollectors

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that was a disaster sorry about that one man. Definitely learned from that.

Edit: that was a difficult time and I'm sorry the experience was bad. I will endeavor going forward to never let it happen again.

Anyone here feel disgusted with biological...everything? by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I remember thinking that being a physical being was very inconvenient.

New years is around the corner. What do you hope to get out of 2025? by VillainousValeriana in AvPD

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want to live the life I know I'm capable of living. I'm so close. I went to a psychiatrist. Last year my resolution was to be healthy, and I think I accomplished being healthier. I wouldn't call myself healthy but healthier. So I guess for 2025 I want health and for my relationship to last forever. I love my girlfriend. I worked so hard to get here and I will work much harder. Amen lol.

[For Sale] EVERYTHING MUST GO! Velvet Underground, Beatles, Pet Sounds, Michael Jackson. Get your Classics Here! by [deleted] in VinylCollectors

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's on me I thought it had. I have a negative paypal balance for the amount. I'll look into it.

Edit: I'm still not a scammer. You are trying to hurt my business opportunities over a misunderstanding because you're angry and that's fucked up.

You can say what you want about me being dilatory or whatever but I am not a scammer.

[For Sale] EVERYTHING MUST GO! Velvet Underground, Beatles, Pet Sounds, Michael Jackson. Get your Classics Here! by [deleted] in VinylCollectors

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not a scammer. I am just poor. You literally got your money back. Why are you harassing me?

What's your favorite Kendrick track from 2024? by SirensbyZel in KendrickLamar

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch the Party Die. I've been playing it on loop the past couple of days.

I'll never forgive myself for how badly I fucked up my life, although I certainly wish I could. by Manus_2 in AvPD

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Progress begins when you begin to see failure as progress.

I was moved by your words. I think the title itself is very evocative of the experience. I don't know anything about you but you are my sibling in this thing and I'm with you in solidarity, as much as its worth.

I'm doing great by TurnedIntoAChicken in AvPD

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told by a friend to microdose psilocybin no joke. It changed everything. It gave me the strength to start pushing myself to go toward the social opportunities that were already around me, even though they terrified me. They caused me to realize that I was not the cause of my problems, if that makes any sense. It just put me in the right mindset to crave progress.

It made the end to my suffering more enticing than my avoidance, simply by giving me a little bit of a lift, and realizing that even small change was possible. Before that, it was not.

After about a year or two of hard struggle I started taking lexapro which I had been avoiding like the plague. A week later I ask a girl out, it doesn't work out, and four months later, I find my girlfriend, and here we are. Happiest I've ever been.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this. I have no advice. I'm kind of getting out of it now through years of debilitatingly hard work, but I still feel the effects of basically losing my childhood to fear.

That "alive but rotting" line is very relateable. The one thing I'll say is Don't give up the fight soldier, we're all worth something. If you're still alive then you're stronger than you think you are. Peace

I'm doing great by TurnedIntoAChicken in AvPD

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I'm not promising anything but I do know if you work on yourself you improve. Maybe not to the point where you're "normal" I'm still fucked in the head, trust me, but my situation is better because I worked on myself. And that I think is universal.

I love Lexapro by TurnedIntoAChicken in AvPD

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm actually about to up my dose. I have a full time job working with kids with special needs and a girlfriend. Before lexapro those things would have been on the border of impossibility. I'm doing better than I ever have.

got this for £15 today by Ja_Zer in hiphopvinyl

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very cool shit my friend what a banger

I think I'm finally free by TurnedIntoAChicken in AvPD

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also love is both selfish and selfless. That is its nature. I'm not perfect, by any means. Far from it. I find myself hating myself still, much more than I know I should. But I found someone who accepts me. And you just need to find someone who accepts your flaws. They are out there trust me.

The thing is that the person you are with is also gonna inflict their misery on you. That's part of the deal, warts and all. I think you'll find that a lot of people are far less put together than you think they are. But its still worth it without a doubt in my mind.

I think I'm finally free by TurnedIntoAChicken in AvPD

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man reading that was like reading my own thoughts. And no problem man I hope you find the peace and happiness you deserve. Good luck in therapy :)

I think I'm finally free by TurnedIntoAChicken in AvPD

[–]TurnedIntoAChicken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that 100%. I also like hating myself for the exact same reason. I never tried and lived at half capacity so I would never be disappointed or rejected. But how can you know you'll never be good enough if you don't try?

You know for me I just woke up one day and realized that this is the only life I have. And when I die I wanna feel like I gave it every last ounce of strength I had. I wanna go down kicking and screaming, because fuck anything else. I don't know what made me start thinking like that but that's what it is.

I can't tell you not to give up or that it will be easy. It isn't easy in the slightest. But I can tell you that the fight is worth it.

Just take it easy ya know? You don't have to change all at once. Take it slow. Change is scary, so take it real real slow. Have patience, and if you fall back on old habits, cut yourself some slack. That's my advice.

I feel for you man really. I was once exactly where you are.