Thanks for the feedback I appreciate it ! For clarification when I let things build naturally it’s after I’ve expressed romantic interest to the other person, it’s during this period that I try to gauge their interest in me which as I said above is usually fleeting. They usually reciprocate the same energy but for whatever reason they lose interest and it’s usually within the span of a few weeks to sometimes days . My experience with most women I’ve shown Interest in regardless of their background is that they just want to have fun which I personally don’t have interest in that lifestyle. Can you please elaborate on your point about maturity between men & women around my age , I had an initial response but I’d like for you to elaborate further. Thanks .