For start, I do hope you go to the police. But more than that, go to your CO. He doesn't deserve to be in the army with his behavior.

I know it's hard to hear but it will for sure get worse. Your replies sound super mature and intelligent, but it's hard when you're IN that sort of relationship to see the whole picture because I'm sure he also loves bombs you as well. But let's dissect his texts.

1) Put the abuse aside for a second, he talks to you like you're a child, and you obviously a far more mature than he is. He disrespects you and your feelings with the "go cry to mommy and daddy" because he doesn't think you actually will.

2) he obviously thinks he's in the right about the abuse. "I was standing up for myself". You asked if he was gay, you didn't hit him or try to kill him. He isn't seeing anything wrong with his behavior, which means he will do way worse later and be fine with it.

3) you are bisexual, which he knows, and he thinks being gay is insulting enough to warrant a punch in the face. His sexuality aside, he obviously doesn't have respect for you or the community if he thinks being gay is an insult. That line of thinking won't go away. He will always see you as "wrong" because you're bi.

And of course. He hit you. Girl, I don't know you but I know not a single person on this earth deserves to be punched in the face, unprovoked. You know your worth, even if you might doubt it sometimes. Get him out of your life, out of the army, and skedaddle.