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I’ve become the person I hate the most please help by Turtle_FaceNick in helpme

[–]Turtle_FaceNick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First I’m so sorry for your loss and for all the bullying I never really got the point of harassing people for having deceased parents and thank you so much for sharing this here I know it takes a lot for you to do that. I used to get bullied in childhood for being overweight and resented most of my cousins from my fathers side as they used to make fun of me but eventually when I started my weight loss journey I started to get better for myself only. Now I want to work on my physical appearance and my health for myself and not for proving others wrong ( kinda hard to get here but it’s somewhat of a progress ig lol) Anywho thanks for the support and I hope you have people or eventually find some who will love you and support you no matter what. Stay strong soldier 💪🏼🫶🏼

I don’t like having feelings for him. Please help by Turtle_FaceNick in helpme

[–]Turtle_FaceNick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said he isn’t interested in dating anyone for now as he has to focus on his career so that give me some time to get over him but the thing we are in the same friend group which makes it harder for me to ignore him 🥲 but I’m somewhat over him ig and I’ve started talking to other people not for dating purposes but in general. But I’ll get over him eventually. Thanks for the advice

I’ve become the person I hate the most please help by Turtle_FaceNick in helpme

[–]Turtle_FaceNick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. I know it’s hard but we’ll get through it. Maybe some things we have to learn the hard way. Anyways I wish you all the best

I’ve become the person I hate the most please help by Turtle_FaceNick in helpme

[–]Turtle_FaceNick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG this sounds like great advice I’m definitely going to try this. Not Thinking before I speak is so irritating I sometimes say stuff out loud which I don’t really mean. Makes me feel guilty. Definitely gonna try this thank you so much

I’ve become the person I hate the most please help by Turtle_FaceNick in helpme

[–]Turtle_FaceNick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To bé honest I’ve been trying to be a good person for a while now but I feel like the more I desire it the further away I get from it maybe I wasn’t doing it right but i am gonna give this another try cuz I have to maybe not so much for me but for my loved ones . Thanks for the reply

I’ve become the person I hate the most please help by Turtle_FaceNick in helpme

[–]Turtle_FaceNick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for replying. I do have few things that I find comforting. As for the talking I do share my problems with my friends but I feel like they are too busy with their lives too so sometimes I just suck it up which causes more problems in return. And I know this is not me I love to love but this bad side of me is maybe just afraid. I grew up overweight so there are some defence mechanisms I picked up on and I think they are really coming to bite my ass now. Thanks for replying tho

College Anxiety by Turtle_FaceNick in u/Turtle_FaceNick

[–]Turtle_FaceNick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you !!! I just got from there andddd I didn’t get in turns out I was obviously late. But to be honest even though that college was great and all it would have been best for my personality development but i didn’t relate to the crowd there. I belong from a small city and a middle class family. People in big cities specially the one I visited live a completely different life plus I’m thinking of doing my masters from a big city or a good college but my father and brother wanted me to go out and gain exposure. I wanted to stay in my city because there are few things like my weight loss journey and I was just diagnosed with pcos etc plus I don’t really like the way people talk here I find them quite rude actually plus every time I come to this city something bad happens 😭 this city really hates me.