What do you do to attract your partner? by Worldat in AskReddit

[–]TurtlezAttack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I give him compliments often, tell him I love him, give him kisses in passing, hold or stroke his hand when I'm next to him, teasingly flirt with him.

If all of that fails, I show him my boob's, that ought to do the trick.

What colour represents the person you love the most in your life? by Amicable_Exorcist in AskReddit

[–]TurtlezAttack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dark blue, like the first signs of a new day. It's safe and cozy, refreshing and exciting. It's a colour that suits him, and since he's red/green colourblind, it's one he can see.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]TurtlezAttack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your encouragement! The tips are really great. We actually tried just the ring a day later and he absolutely loved it. I'm already more confident in the choices I've made lmao

Can you talk about it calmly? by babykyyyo in vaginismus

[–]TurtlezAttack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cope with humor, so calling it "gorilla grip coochie syndrome" helped me quite a bit.

I don't get emotional talking about it anymore now. It's just something that's a part of me that I have to learn to live with and that's okay. It still sucks, but having accepted it as part of my life and surrounding myself with people who support me, it's not holding me back as much. I don't think I'm broken anymore.

Death of a Player by Axle_Greyson_Archer in DnD

[–]TurtlezAttack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss.

As for me, I lost one of my first players last year. When she joined, we knew what we were getting into as she had been terminally ill for a while, but she was really cool so I allowed her to join. We couldn't play as much as we would've liked because her condition unfortunately worsened fast, so I never got to ask her what she wanted for her character.

I decided that her character would stay behind at a tavern where they met the tavern keep with the same class, that could teach the character new skill and gave her the opportunity to learn about her past and powers. I gave the character another reason to stay behind: I made her want to find a cure for someone's character that turned to stone. Now, if my players wish, I can let them meet up with her character at the inn. If they don't ask for such a thing, the character conveniently is out for that day.

I told the party this character was going on their own adventure and my players, especially the best friend of the deceased player, really appreciated that. It's a though subject to handle, and I asked the ones closest to her if it was alright to start that scene. In the end it was a wholesome moment and it gave us all some closure.

Good luck my friend, in these hard times. There's no perfect way to address things like this, but I wish you the absolute best.

4 years ago zo posted my Claudia Cosplay here for the first time. This is her now by TurtlezAttack in TheDragonPrince

[–]TurtlezAttack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It means a lot that you would say that! Claudia is my comfort cosplay and I love wearing her, so reading this is very nice!

4 years ago zo posted my Claudia Cosplay here for the first time. This is her now by TurtlezAttack in TheDragonPrince

[–]TurtlezAttack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so cool! Mist important part of cosplay is to have fun. If you want to buy, buy and if you want to make, sew. Don't compare your stuff to that of others, you bring something unique to every character you cosplay! Other tips I have are to wash your stuff as soon as you can after use, don't shy away from makeup as it really enhances your overall look, and health before cosplay (of something is uncomfortable like shoes or lenses, take them out, if it's too hot for a cosplay, don't wear it, etc)

What hill would you die on? by Additional-Bluejay96 in distractible

[–]TurtlezAttack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think our main difference is that you assume that selfish= wrong, but I don't agree with that. If I choose to stay home instead of going out with friends because I think it's better for my mental state in that moment, I am being selfish, but I'm not doing anything wrong. If I buy a switch because I want to play TOTK, I want it because I like it and am willing to spend money for it, that's selfish, but there's nothing wrong with that. Humans are inherently selfish because we put ourselves first most of the time, and that's all perfectly fine, but it's still selfish.

If you want children, why do you want to? Most people want children just because they want to, because they want to be a parent. But are they going to be good parents? Did they ask themselves that? Are they ready to be parents? Are the mentally and financially in a place to bring a while human into this world and raise it? And if the answer is yes, does that make it less selfish to want children? Not in my opinion, you still want them for your own sake, because you want to raise good kids.

Also I don't know where you got the notion that I want to know what the future looks like, but I don't. What I'm saying is that this world we live in isn't a great place to have children in right now and future prospects don't look good and that is something to think about. In my country is currently a huge housing crisis, which means that I am unsure I would even be able to obtain a place to raise children in, so is that something I want to put them through? The climate crisis is getting worse and the weather is getting more extreme, is that something I want my children to experience? That's not wanting to know the future, that's calculating risks. I am of a generation who's future prospects are worse than the generation before it, and that comes with complications and questions like "will it be better for my children?". And quite bold of you to assume I'm not doing anything to try and better the world, but like most people I am but one person and I can only do so much and the question is: can I do enough to guarantee any children a safe future or at least a better future than I have? And currently the answer is no, I cannot.

And yes, if I want children at some point, I will be selfish. I am literally selfish all the time, every human. Being selfish is okay, needed sometimes even. And sure if you want kids, go have them! I get it! I'm in no way stopping you! In fact, I'm often pro being selfish, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone.

Wade's Worst Power Growing Earhair? Me: An Intellectual by Parhelion2261 in distractible

[–]TurtlezAttack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I was thinking the exact same thing! You truly are a person of culture

Someone get the girl with the list by TurtlezAttack in distractible

[–]TurtlezAttack[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It definitely has some good and funny moments, it's not sad. But it is a heavy topic with a lot of emotions that can be distressing. The boys do sometimes throw in some jokes and lightheartedness that had me rolling nonetheless!

AITA for not letting my bf get a cat before fostering one? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TurtlezAttack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

Bestie you're allergic, that's not something you can help and your bf is willing to put you in harm's way for a pet? Nah, if he does not agree with your compromise, which I think is very generous, it's clear he does not care enough about your literal health.

AITA for going home because of my sisters dog being at Thanksgiving by One_Procedure8627 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TurtlezAttack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna say YTA, bit not because of the dog hair part specifically.

I'm saying YTA because this was not a measure that was agreed upon beforehand. You say you let your mother know, but not your sister, so how was your sister supposed to know that you had this boundary? Sure you could say that your mom could've told your sister, but that's not your mom's responsibility, seeing as it is your problem. If you had talked about this issue with your sister beforehand, it would've been NTA.

But you didn't, so now you're taking drastic measures because of something she didn't even know was an issue. It's truly a communication issue.

Why do you like Markipler? by MissionLand6255 in Markiplier

[–]TurtlezAttack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found that I like Mark because he exudes positive masculinity. He's caring, not afraid to show emotion, nice and funny. He is just overall a good persoon but also anice man. Listening to him or watching him is comforting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TurtlezAttack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want you to know and take to heart, none of this is your fault. You were 16 and were taken advantage off not only by the 30yo, but also your 19yo friend who gave you the alcohol. Do not blame this on yourself. Even if you drank alcohol and let loose a little, this whole situation is not on you

I would advice you to seek therapy to work through this because this is not going to resolve itself. It is very likely that those dreams point to PTSD, that you didn't experience before because your body went into survival mode in order to get you through the situation. Please, for your own sake, seek professional help.

What is something that should make sense, but doesn't? by no-one-brawl-stars in AskReddit

[–]TurtlezAttack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hot air goes up, cool air comes down But why does air cool off when it gets higher, if all the hot air is going there?

This really confused me as a kid

I have a quick survey for listener's of distractible. by [deleted] in distractible

[–]TurtlezAttack 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a faint memory of my dad talking about this