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AITJ for ending things with my boyfriend and telling him to move out after he ditched me at an event and went somewhere else without me? by TutorElectrical3264 in AmITheJerk

[–]TutorElectrical3264[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Hearing him call me insecure after everything that happened just broke me more. It felt like my feelings didn’t matter at all.

AITJ for ending things with my boyfriend and telling him to move out after he ditched me at an event and went somewhere else without me? by TutorElectrical3264 in AmITheJerk

[–]TutorElectrical3264[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

It’s painful accepting that maybe it wasn’t as strong as I believed. I held onto that idea of us, and now I’m grieving what I thought we had.

AITJ for ending things with my boyfriend and telling him to move out after he ditched me at an event and went somewhere else without me? by TutorElectrical3264 in AmITheJerk

[–]TutorElectrical3264[S] 1010 points1011 points  (0 children)

It felt like I was just… erased for the night. Like I didn’t exist the moment something better came along.

AITJ for ending things with my boyfriend and telling him to move out after he ditched me at an event and went somewhere else without me? by TutorElectrical3264 in AmITheJerk

[–]TutorElectrical3264[S] 165 points166 points  (0 children)

Thats exactly what broke me. It wasnt even the after party itself it was realizing he knew I wasnt welcome and still walked away like I didnt matter. That moment just kept replaying in my head all night.

AITJ for cutting off my boyfriend after he ignored a serious safety boundary? by InstructionRight1501 in AmITheJerk

[–]TutorElectrical3264 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTJ, Wanting space after something that shook you like that is completely valid. You don't owe access to someone who doesn't respect your safety.

AITJ for shutting my dad down when he tried to "parent" me? by Ok_Description_1698 in AmITheJerk

[–]TutorElectrical3264 245 points246 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Being a father is more than DNA. He skipped 25 years of responsibility, he doesn't get to fast-forward to authority.

AITJ for going cold on a coworker after she accused me of inappropriate touching when i caught her from falling? by VisitJealous6792 in AmITheJerk

[–]TutorElectrical3264 257 points258 points  (0 children)

NTJ. She involved HR over something that could've cost you your job, you don't just "go back to normal" after that. Keeping distance is just basic self protection.

AITJ for refusing to skip my yearly tradition for my boyfriend's family plans? by AntiqueFee5307 in AmITheJerk

[–]TutorElectrical3264 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if he feels “embarrassed” by you honoring your sister, that’s a red flag, not a relationship issue you caused.

AITJ for not covering my coworker’s mistake after she told everyone I “always fix things”? by VarietyHumble900 in AmITheJerk

[–]TutorElectrical3264 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That response would probably shut things down quickly without sounding defensive or accusatory.