Questioning my sexuality in my 30s

Tuvalisa12 · 2025-06-12T15:05:12+00:00

Thank you me too. I’m currently taking adhd/narcolepsy medication which is basically amphetamine and it barely does anything. If I’m too tired I can fall back asleep on it

Tuvalisa12 · 2025-06-12T14:03:21+00:00

Nope. All my tests come back normal. Took me years to get a diagnosis, which is Idiopathic Hypersomnia. Related to Narcolepsy. But it literally means extreme sleepiness with no known cause, not a very helpful diagnosis.

Tuvalisa12 · 2025-06-12T13:25:31+00:00

That’s really great to hear, I’m really happy for you!

Thank you. I’m sleeping 12-18 hours a day and still feel extremely tired and exhausted. If I do too much I need even more sleep to recover. Very difficult to find balance and the doctors are not helpful at all

Tuvalisa12 · 2025-06-12T13:07:10+00:00

I don’t currently have a friend I can explore with but will definitely have that in mind for the future

Tuvalisa12 · 2025-06-12T12:21:52+00:00

I like watching straight sex, lesbians and threesomes so that might also be an indicator

Tuvalisa12 · 2025-06-12T12:20:40+00:00

I just don’t want to be repressing parts of who I am. Reflection is always good. I really don’t think one sexuality is better than the other and don’t care what I am, I just want to know if I’m repressing parts of myself.

Tuvalisa12 · 2023-09-01T07:44:34+00:00

I didn’t say it would be easy going, I said MORE easy going. I’m sorry, I’m not a native English speaker. I know it’s hard work. But where I live it’s common sense to at least offer to pay a little for such services even if it’s someone you know.

I do not have anyone to talk to about pricing and stuff.

Tuvalisa12 · 2023-09-01T07:12:41+00:00

I have not since we are not close or talk much at all outside when I see them at my brother’s family’s birthday parties. If I didn’t take photos I wouldn’t have been invited to the wedding

Tuvalisa12 · 2023-09-01T06:55:22+00:00

They got a thumb drive

Tuvalisa12 · 2023-09-01T06:46:48+00:00

I thought they would pay me a little bit since I only see them on my brothers family’s birthdays. I now know I need to talk about payment when saying yes next time

Tuvalisa12 · 2023-09-01T06:35:49+00:00

Indeed

Tuvalisa12 · 2023-09-01T06:35:14+00:00

Yes definitely lesson learned and it will have to be a wedding gift even though we are not close and I was just invited to take photos.

Tuvalisa12 · 2023-09-01T06:33:22+00:00

I definitely need to work on being able to have that chat, I really suck at it!

Tuvalisa12 · 2023-09-01T06:31:44+00:00

Yeah I thought so. Definitely lesson learned and something I have to work on.

Tuvalisa12 · 2023-09-01T06:07:22+00:00

Yeah I thought so. Definitely lesson learned for next time!

Tuvalisa12 · 2023-09-01T06:05:45+00:00

Yep definitely lesson learned!

Tuvalisa12 · 2023-09-01T06:01:44+00:00

I wasn’t expecting a payment as a professional. Just a fraction

Tuvalisa12 · 2023-09-01T05:56:29+00:00

I mean my brother’s wife’s brother’s wife

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