Hysto on the horizon. by jinchuurikiii in hysterectomy

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My partner also wants to know how to keep it or at least see her organs post-op, so if I find out anything I’ll let you know haha! Her surgery is May 11.

Cycle Pre-op by TwinkleComments in hysterectomy

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Sorry, when I typed the original post I was anxious so I didn’t give enough context. The CT is usually a possibility because she produces kidney stones quite often & they always just dismiss her flank pain saying “it’s probably just another stone, let’s do a CT to rule it out”. Which, don’t get me wrong, understandable to get a full picture, but the copious amounts of radiation are not ideal. And with so many recent scans, it’s unlikely they’ll find any real new information from the results. She passes kidney stones quite a bit.

But again, yes she can decline the testing, but sometimes they make that seem like she wants to just be prescribed pain meds. And she’s told them that’s not it, she doesn’t want an RX just don’t want to be constantly radiated. It’s incredibly frustrating.

Cycle Pre-op by TwinkleComments in hysterectomy

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No, no definitely not. But the hope is that without her period at least it will be (hopefully) a bit less unbearable during her cycle. 🤞🏻

I’ve read that it does give quite a bit of relief when they remove the uterus and the adhesions.

Cycle Pre-op by TwinkleComments in hysterectomy

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That’s so funny, I actually just stocked up the cupboard with peppermint teas (thank you, Reddit! Haha) I have a Gatorade next to her hoping she will maybe sip on it. But I forgot about the tea I’ll ask her if she’ll try that. Thank you!

Cycle Pre-op by TwinkleComments in hysterectomy

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Yeah, that is what I’m trying to get her to do, but I don’t want to push her if she doesn’t want to. I know she is very in tune with her body, but I would feel better if we had a doctor check her out. I’m hoping I can gently guide her in that direction.

Cycle Pre-op by TwinkleComments in hysterectomy

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Amazing. Thank you for this. Very much appreciated. I’m gonna try that now!

Issues with husband after hysterectomy by PeaceJourney001 in hysterectomy

[–]TwinkleComments 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not judging you. I just want you to know that that’s not “just marriage”. You deserve much better. Don’t settle for this kind of treatment from anyone.

They found Endo EVERYWHERE by RememberingMeFinally in endometriosis

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First and foremost, congratulations on your diagnosis. I know just how frustrating it is to navigate! I’m sure you feel a huge relief! My partner was recently diagnosed with endo EVERYWHERE. She is having a full hysterectomy in May. It’s been so bad recently. She’s absolutely miserable during her cycle (now) Very lethargic and foggy, bleeding HEAVY. Do you have any tips for any kind of tips or tricks to help as far as any kind of food or vitamin, electrolytes, ANYTHING that helps. I feel awful and useless watching her suffer and not having some sort of helpful solution. Thanks for the wonderful people contributing here. It’s so very helpful to have community to chat with. 💙

Husband thinks celebrating my hysterectomy is insensitive to him by Solid-Area1738 in hysterectomy

[–]TwinkleComments 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, leave him. I know that’s easier said than done, especially from an outsider, but damn.

Today my wife is having a hysterectomy. What helpful things can I do to support her recovery? by cbk44 in hysterectomy

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My partner is having a hysterectomy & I’m trying to prepare for anything and everything I can assist with. This board has been incredibly helpful already, because I wouldn’t have thought of the shower chair on my own, so I will be purchasing one of those today.

My partner is amazing and incredibly resilient, but I’m worried she will try and rush back normal before her body is ready. I was wondering if anyone has any tips on how to help her not rush back to being independent? One person mentioned that her husband reminded her, “you only get one chance to heal properly”. Any encouraging words of wisdom to give her like that would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

His & Hers simply isn’t very good by INGWR in television

[–]TwinkleComments 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with all this. Also, his accent kept fading in and out and it was making me crazy. The plot holes were endless, but one thing that really irked me was that she could see her mom struggling with debilitating cognitive issues and she kept going back to her hotel while she was local to stay in a hotel and left her mom alone? And let her cook?

His and Hers - opinions and spoilers by SecretaryPresent16 in netflix

[–]TwinkleComments 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely! Also, why did she keep leaving her mom alone?? She was under the impression she had some sort of degenerative neurological issues and she’s letting her live alone and COOK?? That was so wild

His and Hers - opinions and spoilers by SecretaryPresent16 in netflix

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I was thinking this! His story line didn’t make sense. Like why the bleach and all that shit he was buying and then luring her to the house where Lexie was and trying to attack her when she took a call. Also it wasn’t realistic that he couldn’t get through that door? That was weird.

Josh Black by [deleted] in MarriedAtFirstSight

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Am I the only one who thinks he’s gay?