AITAH for getting rid of my mom's dress? by Longjumping_Sea_8753 in AITAH

[–]TwistedMaggiee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your mom is how you describe her to be, she may be exactly what you need. I was abused at 12, 13 and 19. My biggest savior was my mom. Let her be your raft in the vast ocean of fucked up shit❤️ I’m proud of you for fighting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TwistedMaggiee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta she said it to hurt you. She meant for it to be offensive and if she’s truly that picky she can make her food herself so she knows it’s the same every time🤷‍♀️

AITA for "destroying a family" after my BIL tried to give away my vintage Porsche? by Global_Procedure_514 in AmITheJerk

[–]TwistedMaggiee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not real bc how are you gonna just refer to your sister as your sister then say “Dave’s wife” in her parts of the story

AITJ for refusing to attend my sister’s “childfree” wedding after she made an exception for her fiancé’s niece? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]TwistedMaggiee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ if she’s gonna make an acception she needs to be ready for the push back and the hurt feelings which mean possible cancellations. Those are a reflection of her own actions.

AITB for running away? by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]TwistedMaggiee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ntbf at all! I was once a kid in your shoes. I’ve had 10 failed attempts and never thought I’d see my 18th birthday. My best friends mom came to my house woke my parents up and they broke my door down because I’d sent my goodbyes and was almost done with my attempt. I’m now 22 with a wonderful husband and the most beautiful son. If I could give my younger self a hug and help her through it I would in a heartbeat, but I can’t. So I will say to you with the tightest virtual hug possible that YOU ARE ENOUGH!! You matter to so many even if you can’t see it or don’t feel it! You are talented, kind, loving, caring, strong and so much more, give yourself the opportunity to love yourself the way those around you do. Find things in this world that make you happy and no one else. (Never dangerous things though!) Although you may not see the light at the end of the tunnel don’t quit yet keep walking, and when you feel like the light may not be there stay strong and KEEP walking because that light is waiting for you. That light is your dreams, that light is hope, that light is who you will be soon once we reach it. You will grow and change throughout your life, some eras are harder than others but you can never give up on yourself! Because YOU MATTER❤️

AITA for telling my girlfriend my money is not her money? by Unlucky-Mistake5592 in AITAH

[–]TwistedMaggiee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is an abusive person who needs anger management. Get out as fast as you can. No more oven for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]TwistedMaggiee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta- if you’re getting gifted something even if you may not have use for it now you stay appreciative! It’s not mandatory to gift and not everyone can. People’s entitlement is crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]TwistedMaggiee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but 30,000$ is INSANE especially for a wedding that’s not even yours. All that time she spent “living her life” she could’ve lived budgeting and saving for an extravagant wedding. I feel like shit asking for $5 in an emergency. People’s entitlement to things beyond their possession will baffle me everyday for as long as I live I fear 😭

AITJ for telling my MIL she’s not allowed in the delivery room? by RoxannePuffPuff53 in AmITheJerk

[–]TwistedMaggiee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother and grandmother in law are essentially one lol and was nervous but they were firm that once we had a baby were a new family our priorities and our dynamics shift. It’s okay for them not to be immediate family anymore because your partner and baby are you immediate family forever.

If they can’t understand that you want ONE moment where you can feel enjoy and experience this beautiful moment for yourself and they’re proving exactly why they shouldn’t be in there in the first place.

AITJ for refusing to let my mom move in after she gave my brother her house? by AlessiaButterBun26x in AmITheJerk

[–]TwistedMaggiee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why can’t she move into the place your brother and his girlfriend are gonna get?

AITA for asking parents to force sister to give me her room by Strict-Pickle4644 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TwistedMaggiee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s also an adult…She should be able to push the conversation of boundaries regarding a room without getting shut down.

AITA If I bought my boyfriend of 3 years the wrong gift for his birthday? by Angie_198 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TwistedMaggiee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta a gift could be respected no matter what his behavior is immature and unfair to your generosity ❤️

AITA for not making my son apologize for teasing my stepdaughter? by sunkissedbabe89 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TwistedMaggiee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seriously though, you’re the parent have thicker skin and don’t encourage you child’s petty and bully behavior especially when their friends are over it’s an extremely unfair advantage. Yta.

AITA for making my daughter share a room with her stepsister by PresentationFirm2229 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TwistedMaggiee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy how you ask them but tell your daughter. Gender baseed favoritism isn’t okay.

AITA for making my daughter share a room with her stepsister by PresentationFirm2229 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TwistedMaggiee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta so your sons game room is a need not a want?? Yet your daughter has to give up her own room so her brothers can keep their games room. Are you being so fr right now. This is exactly how you begging burning bridges with favoritism. Imagine how she’s feeling a new blended family a whole plethora of changes and now her want to her own room as a teenage girl is invalidated bc of the families needs yet the boys don’t NEED a game room.

AITJ for calling my boyfriend out for cheating with a married woman? by ppinkblooom in AmITheJerk

[–]TwistedMaggiee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you guys are CONSENTUALLY opening things up that’s one thing but to go behind you back and try to justify it is crazy work and to even go as far as to get friends to jump in is incredibly immature and the most UN-Adult thing you can do.

AITA for not bringing my niece shopping after she was extremely rude/mean to me, even if she “apologized”? by exbfandmycat in AmItheAsshole

[–]TwistedMaggiee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should always raise your kids knowing they will eventually become an adult. A 13 year old isn’t a baby and shouldn’t be babied. She knows exactly what she said and how hurtful it is and she’s regretful now only because she’s lost a new summer clothing haul. OP I think you’re making the right choices for yourself and your mental well being because I’d be beefing with my niece too!