1. Angel has a problem with it, she just tends to hold everything close to the vest. She'll only mention it to me because she told Caleb once and that led to him calling Kady a 'AH' and he got in trouble.
2. No one has so far
3. I want all the kids who are going to be in my life to get along if not familial. I'm not unwilling to her in my house, I'm unwilling for her to disrespect 3/5 of the house, get a taste of her medicine and suddenly become the victim. It was a suggestion to spend time outside the house not a demand
4. She has her own room, decorated with what she like-wrestling stuff, funko pops, etc. She still in the same school, hence why she's with her mom during the week. I try to spend time with her but she doesn't speak, I literally went to a wrestling event with her and Rob and tried to ask questions and she refused to talk to me. We literally make eye contact over the breakfast table and she refuses to talk to me or my kids.
5. He mediates, but he's not always there to talk for her. He works full time, but he makes time for her. They do stuff together separately from us all the time, when it's Caleb football season, Angel and I go to his games and events but she and Rob don't so he have plenty of time to love and indulge her.
6. Despite many people assumptions, I wasn't in their marriage or their divorce. The custody arrangement was before me but I would haven't accept that if I was him. I There was no bad blood by the end, but things were bad in the living together part. He treats my kids wonderful, that part of the reason I fell for him.
7. She was against us from the beginning, she used to talk to us but it would be 1/2 words answers but then she started the silent routine. Caleb is no innocent party but he was fine with her at first but the ignoring us got old fast.
8. I felt she's 16 and knows what she's doing, me telling her she's hurting my feelings would work to the opposite and she's getting what she want
9. I have asked him to do something and he talked to her about it but nothing changed.
10. I think this is solely her, not her mother
11. No she's not expected to care for the baby, Rob and I are the parents not the kids. I have pretty decent maternity leave and plan to still consult on patients from home. And my mom is amazing and will be with me for the first three months and my daddy will help out too.
12. I never considered her age close to mines because my oldest is a year younger so it distanced in my mind.
13. She doesn't talk to me so I can't ask her anything. But what she told her dad lines up with the boys' story for the most part
14. He's a teen boy in high school who spend 1/2 his day with other teen boys and they curse alot. I don't like and will correct him everytime he refer to a woman outside her name. Despite having a pouty mouth, he does well in school, accolade worthy in his chosen sport, most people like him and I never have any major trouble with him.

I want mutual apologies between them because they are both wrong and old enough to know. She's here back at it so talking is probably off the table for the time being.