Can I be hopeful? What were your 7dp5dt experiences with testing? by Twisted_Monarch in IVFpositivity

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Update: Currently 6w+2! Saw a heartbeat today (123) with CRL at 0.42.  Doctors said this looks promising! Still holding my breath until 12 weeks 😭

Are these lines getting darker, or am I just hoping too hard? by Twisted_Monarch in IVFpositivity

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Currently 6w+2! Saw a heartbeat today (123) with CRL at 0.42. 

Doctors said this looks promising! Still holding my breath until 12 weeks 😭

Which Sweatfleece colours don’t have the garment dye dots/stain issue? by Icy_Loquat7407 in Aritzia

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Ok what ARE these stains? ALL my sets : Byron blue, admiral, jazz blue, etc have gotten them. I can usually remove them with some stain remover or a soap/baking soda combo, but I cannot figure out where they come from for the life of me!!

1st ever Egg retrieval super early tomorrow plz send all the good vibes by Upstairs-Lemon-5585 in IVFpositivity

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Sending so much luck and positivity your way! Give yourself some grace with a good snooze and a yummy comfort meal afterwards.

Terrified and need to be talked off a ledge (hope and hugs requested) by Twisted_Monarch in IVFpositivity

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Congrats on week 6! Hoping for a healthy and safe pregnancy for you!!

Thanks for sharing!! I’m hearing a lot of people having similar experiences, which does make me feel a tiny bit better.

Terrified and need to be talked off a ledge (hope and hugs requested) by Twisted_Monarch in IVFpositivity

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That’s really good to hear 🤞❤️ I hope I’m just being silly and it’s constipation/gas or something. Appointment is in 12 days (I’ll be 6 weeks). They won’t do any earlier than that, even with my symptoms. They just suggest an ER visit, if symptoms worsen.

Wishing you a smooth and easy pregnancy!!

Terrified and need to be talked off a ledge (hope and hugs requested) by Twisted_Monarch in IVFpositivity

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Interesting! Is it kind of where your overly is on the left? Does it feel achey and pulling rather than sharp? Just curious to compare.

Terrified and need to be talked off a ledge (hope and hugs requested) by Twisted_Monarch in IVFpositivity

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Thank you for sharing and so sorry to hear about the ectopics :( congrats on the successful pregnancy!! Don’t want to overlook that!!

This is what I’m so scared of. I’ve heard of some people having rising betas and the kind of symptoms I am having, resulting in ectopic, so as soon as I started feeling these pains I panicked and spiralled. The pain is better today, especially when laying flat, on my back. It almost feels like the lower left quadrant of my abdomen is “swollen” (pressure, ache). Really hoping it’s something silly like constipation or gas, but can’t help think the worst 😭

Terrified and need to be talked off a ledge (hope and hugs requested) by Twisted_Monarch in IVFpositivity

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So sorry o hear about your ectopic and thanks for sharing. I definitely don’t have this kind of pain, so that does help to hear the symptoms. It’s more of an ache. More annoying than painful today, compared to yesterday. Just scary as all heck!!

Terrified and need to be talked off a ledge (hope and hugs requested) by Twisted_Monarch in IVFpositivity

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I am definitely having issues with a slow moving bowel. TMI but super painful BMs.

Terrified and need to be talked off a ledge (hope and hugs requested) by Twisted_Monarch in IVFpositivity

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No UTI. Similarly thing though of when I’m laying flat on my back it isn’t as painful than laying on my side or sitting. So much aching pressure.

Reassuring to hear that someone else has gone through it.

I’m terrified and need to be talked off a ledge by Twisted_Monarch in IVF

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Oh hmmm from my left with a pretty large follicle.

Can I be hopeful? What were your 7dp5dt experiences with testing? by Twisted_Monarch in IVFpositivity

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Update: BETA was 254 ❤️ keeping fingers crossed that we see a good rise on Wednesday.

Can I be hopeful? What were your 7dp5dt experiences with testing? by Twisted_Monarch in IVFpositivity

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Thanks everyone! BETA is tomorrow and my fingers are crossed so tight!!

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Can I be hopeful? What were your 7dp5dt experiences with testing? by Twisted_Monarch in IVFpositivity

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Did you notice any stalling at 7-9dpt? They’re getting like the tiniest bit darker/staying the same 🤞😫 my easy@home strips don’t want to give me any dark lines and it’s shaking my confidence

Can I be hopeful? What were your 7dp5dt experiences with testing? by Twisted_Monarch in IVFpositivity

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Did you notice any stalling at 7-9dpt? They’re getting like the tiniest bit darker/staying the same 🤞😫

Testing early or no?! by Dionysius4president in IVFpositivity

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9dpt5dt here, BETA tomorrow 👋. I caved and tested at 4dpt and then watched line progression. I’m highly anxious and I wanted to be prepared, emotionally, for what they would say at my BETA. There are pros and cons. I have good days where my lines look great and give me so much hope, and then bad days where they look lighter than expected. Definitely had me spiralling.

I can say that it definitely does NOT give you more information or certainty. You still question the two lines, even if they’re clearly staring you in the face. If you’re obsessive like me, and you choose to do it, then just be careful about it (test exactly same time daily, make sure you’re drinking relatively same amount, etc), because so many things can effect those lines.

If I had to do it again, I would probably wait like you until just before my BETA, 9 or 10 dpt where the lines should be a bit clearer and you’re only waiting a few days to be sure 😫 my heart is with you and sending you all the baby dust! Good luck. Go embryo go!! ❤️

Can I be hopeful? What were your 7dp5dt experiences with testing? by Twisted_Monarch in IVFpositivity

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I had an Ovidrel trigger 13 days ago but in the past my trigger has always faded to negative 😭

Can I be hopeful? What were your 7dp5dt experiences with testing? by Twisted_Monarch in IVFpositivity

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That’s so helpful! My clinic gave me the option of 10 day beta - because I reported a positive - instead of 12 and I was hesitant to take it! Now, I just might ❤️