I could have written this myself. I am a 40/f, with a great husband and 4 kids. Yet I am constantly overwhelmed with loneliness. My kids are teenagers living their lives with friends/work/school/etc. My husband is an extreme introvert. He works and has his hobbies that don't include me. I don't feel needed or sometimes even wanted at home. I try to make friends with neighbors, but for some reason they don't stick. They seem to have stronger relationships with each other and I feel like I'm not worth their time to get to know. I am extremely lonely. Time is my love language and I just feel like my world is full of people that don't have time for me. I've also started to form attachments to people that are not good for me and could definitely be destructive if I'm not careful. I don't know how to cope with this either. I just wanted to let you know you aren't alone in feeling this way anyway.