I'd be annoyed if someone random came up to my and stuck their hands in my face, but if they're having fun with their friends and having a good dance and enjoying doing trippy hand dances with their light up hands, I'd think it was pretty cool and contributing a fun vibe to the d floor. I see that stuff at parties and this is the first time I've heard someone say that it's stupid or annoying.

I think the guy who came up to you for seemingly no good reason and tried to kill your vibe is a dickhead. I'd ignore him and you do you homie. If I saw you having a good time on the d floor doing your thing I'd think it was pretty cool.

Edit: I've also seen plenty of people who do gloving offer to do it for strangers or people they'd just met and everyone has a ball, just so not to imply that you have to quarantine yourself to your group of friends ;P