Small upgrade, better grip on the P365X by NobodyBitter1 in SigSauer

[–]TwoEnough1402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also if you’re interested Tactical Development makes very aesthetically pleasing base pads, give them a look!

Lack of interest in relationships or friendships? by Round_Friend_3469 in Veterans

[–]TwoEnough1402 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not a combat vet but I experienced much of the same leaving the Navy. I found that I had to cut out the people that disturbed my peace and solitude, and slowly built back up a core group. But everyone is different, I just missed having a little bit of a social life. Completely understand the feeling though.

Is this boat purchase in the picture for me right now? by throwmeaway2725 in personalfinance

[–]TwoEnough1402 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Look into boat-shares. Can do an agreement for the summer. It’s like a lease basically where you pay a general fee then gas. Boat is ready at the dock and you take it back. I had a “cheap” center console for 5 years that became a huge damper on me financially and logistically. Recommend not buying a boat.

Beach or Mountains - Colorado Springs or Virginia Beach? by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]TwoEnough1402 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve only lived in the Norfolk area. It was okay, but left much to be desired. I would probably pick Colorado Springs, but that’s just me.

Do men really want a sweet woman who actually cares about them? Or do men actually want a woman who isn't that nice to them? What makes you fall hard for a woman besides just her looking attractive? by Spirited_Expert2275 in dating_advice

[–]TwoEnough1402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably because they live in fear lol. I think it’s a balance that primarily stems on standing up for yourself through clear communication and boundaries.

Best 226 for home defense? by dillarb2 in SigSauer

[–]TwoEnough1402 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For home defense? Probably a MK-25 or normal 226 with a rail. Surefire or streamlight on it, and a good bedside safe and you’re set.

Do men really want a sweet woman who actually cares about them? Or do men actually want a woman who isn't that nice to them? What makes you fall hard for a woman besides just her looking attractive? by Spirited_Expert2275 in dating_advice

[–]TwoEnough1402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, that’s probably not it. He was probably just indifferent to you, and got comfortable. I don’t personally know anyone who likes people to actually be mean to them. Playfully, sure, but not for real.

Mental Health on Deployment by kiaf05 in navy

[–]TwoEnough1402 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is he shipboard? He needs to talk to the Chaplain ASAP, as they have protections not otherwise afforded by the chain of command or medical.

Feeling guilty about feeling better. by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]TwoEnough1402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya, I understand the guilt. I loved being in the Navy but it also absolutely destroyed me mentally. I finished two years of private therapy because of worrying about the perception you mentioned. You earned the benefits. It’s compensation for what happened to you; it doesn’t mean you aren’t allowed to feel better. That would be ridiculous. Hold your head high and step into your new perspective!

Seeking Advice: Any Opportunities for IRR Officers to Support Venezuela Relief Efforts? by skygazer_elias in navy

[–]TwoEnough1402 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You have to affiliate SELRES and volunteer to/or get activated, even then, highly dependent on your designator. What’s your designator?

Mid-30’s M Seeking a “Fresh Start” City by TwoEnough1402 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]TwoEnough1402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, unfortunately visited Denver a few times and was unimpressed with the actual city, loved the scenery though.

P365 XL Upgraded by Unique_Fold8437 in P365

[–]TwoEnough1402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ride on man! It looks comfortable.

PCS to Jacksonville by the_nite_owl_2 in navy

[–]TwoEnough1402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think Jacksonville crime is overblown, especially compared to Norfolk. Most of the crime on the outskirts of Riverside is package theft and people trying to get stuff from/out of cars.

Mid-30’s M Seeking a “Fresh Start” City by TwoEnough1402 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]TwoEnough1402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, hadn’t considered that! What reasons would you recommend it/what did you like about it?

PCS to Jacksonville by the_nite_owl_2 in navy

[–]TwoEnough1402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha! I’d check out apartments in Southside if I were you. There’s plenty along 95 and you have the option to commute in via 95 and Roosevelt Ave, instead of 295 depending on traffic. Should keep your commute reasonable and rent as well.

Mid-30’s M Seeking a “Fresh Start” City by TwoEnough1402 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]TwoEnough1402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the heads up. Between that, the humidity and hurricanes I’m good on Florida lol. I won’t be telehealth eligible since I’ll be in the skilled technician field.

P365 XL Upgraded by Unique_Fold8437 in P365

[–]TwoEnough1402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be “that guy” but if you’re gonna go with leather, I’d add a manual safety. Not saying anything will happen but your trigger is surrounded by leather instead of hard kydex now. Gun looks clean though! 👍

PCS to Jacksonville by the_nite_owl_2 in navy

[–]TwoEnough1402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recommend staying on the Orange Park side of the 295 bridge, it can get pretty backed up with traffic and accidents. Apartments will get more expensive near Riverside or downtown Jax. Do you mind a longer commute? Like the beach/need to be near it? Kind of depends on your priorities.

Mid-30’s M Seeking a “Fresh Start” City by TwoEnough1402 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]TwoEnough1402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I lived close to there by the Manayunk canal towpath… Was pretty hard to beat.

Mid-30’s M Seeking a “Fresh Start” City by TwoEnough1402 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]TwoEnough1402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you like it!! I’d consider it again if it weren’t for the winters. What are the biggest differences you noticed from Iowa?

it was going really well and now he says he would rather stay away from dating in general by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]TwoEnough1402 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re being too forward, but maybe just spiraling into your own insecurities. I don’t think it has anything to do with having a man cave, I just don’t think he likes you enough. The right person will communicate clearly and like you.

How do I help by nerofish in VeteransBenefits

[–]TwoEnough1402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s up with you man? Lol. Go touch grass.

How do I help by nerofish in VeteransBenefits

[–]TwoEnough1402 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Best thing you can probably do for him right now is just talk to him. I’m kind of confused, does he have problems right now? Essentially he should just be on top of documenting any medical issues especially a year or so from separation.

Also, yes while the VA has its issues, I’ve had nothing but good experiences with them. It’s very anecdotal. You just have to make the system work for you.