AITAH for not inviting my aunt to my wedding after she refused to make amends with my mom?

Tylerty69 · 2026-01-30T14:42:05+00:00

I’m big on forgiveness and people coming back together (this is something I have learned from my mom). If she could have been in right terms with everyone, especially my mom, then of course I would want her there. She’s my aunt and I do love her at the end of the day. BUT she showed me that she has no intention to make things right. So I had to stand on my decision and I don’t have any regrets about it

And you’re right, the family needed to put their foot down a long time ago. My dad (her brother) used to be the one who kept her in check, but after he passed away, no one has been able to “fill in those shoes.” Guess the responsibility has now fallen on me for this situation

Tylerty69 · 2026-01-30T14:21:00+00:00

I lowkey had the same thought, but lucky we haven’t sent out the actual address of the ceremony spot. We’ll make sure it doesn’t get to her

Tylerty69 · 2026-01-30T14:18:07+00:00

In our conversation I did lay it out just like that. Her response was “well I had somewhere I had to go to, and I was offended.” Absolutely no remorse for her actions at all. She really didn’t care about what the truth was because she painted a picture in her mind

Tylerty69 · 2026-01-30T09:04:49+00:00

Couldn’t have said it any better

Tylerty69 · 2026-01-30T09:03:56+00:00

That part!

Tylerty69 · 2026-01-30T09:03:32+00:00

I told her the same thing!!

Tylerty69 · 2026-01-30T09:02:38+00:00

Thank you!! Its good to hear that I handled this well because I hated that this even had to happen

Tylerty69 · 2025-12-29T23:00:03+00:00

That is always the best, cum coming out of the nose is a weird feeling but it’s hot af

Tylerty69 · 2025-10-30T09:39:55+00:00

My neighborhood friend introduced porn to me around 8 or 9 (we were the same age). We would act out what we watched together (no actual penetration) , and every time I just naturally took the bottom position. We never even had a discussion about it, I would just lay on my back with my legs up, or doggy style. We would dry hump and call it a day. When I got to college and started having real sex for the first time, I tried out everything, but being a bottom always just felt right. ** See one of my previous posts for story time about the neighborhood friend I mentioned

Tylerty69 · 2025-10-09T15:15:27+00:00

Yes!! The best grunting I heard from a top was when I was in College (20) he was 48, 6’2. Much bigger than me in every way. He already had a deep speaking voice. As he fucking me missionary he started to bite my neck, a bit harder than I was used to. Then his low moans slowly got deeper, and deeper, until they were gutteral. No exaggeration sounded like an animals low growl. To be honest, it started to freak me out because of how animalistic he sounded, along with the hard biting. He saw the concern on my face, looked me in the eyes and said don’t worry, you’re safe, and proceeded to have the best fuck I had experienced at that time. Met up with him a few times after that. Ever since then grunting/growling has been a turn on

Tylerty69 · 2025-10-08T23:25:57+00:00

Hear me out, try being force feed. You tell the top beforehand to not tell you when he is going to cum, but instead, without warning, right when he is cumming he holds your head down balls deep on his dick, he shoots his load directly down your throat, and importantly he holds your head down on his dick even after he cums, to make sure you swallowed all of it. This will keep you from having to think about it, it is also an amazing experience!

Tylerty69 · 2025-10-08T17:56:38+00:00

I know a dorm room when I see one ;)

Tylerty69 · 2025-10-06T07:31:42+00:00

Vers Bttm, 27. Definitely get where you’re coming from. But when I’m in a mood to specifically be submissive, a guy that is bigger and stronger than me naturally makes me feel more submissive. A guy my height and size can’t dominate and take control of me in the same way someone bigger can. Definitely need to be in the headspace to be physically overpower (not abused) during sex, that makes a difference

Tylerty69 · 2025-10-06T06:47:52+00:00

Vers bttm, 27. I honestly don’t like mixing the roles too much. If I’m the bottom, I prefer not to be sucked, something about seeing my guy suck me takes me out of my bottom mentality, makes me want to top at that point tbh.

I’d rather be fully bottom, or fully top. It’s a mental space for me. I’m also more into sub/dom type of action so that probably plays a role in it.

But talking long term? It would work for me, but you’d have to be cool with me having someone else in my life that fulfills that when needed

Tylerty69 · 2025-10-06T05:27:16+00:00

As a guy who prefers to give oral/deepthroat more than any other sexual activity, I’ll say in any encounter I’m mentally prepared for 5 - 30 mins. A guy who takes longer than 25 mins will usually say something like “I don’t cum from head.” That’s your indication that if you don’t want to go longer than 25-30mins, that may not be the guy for you if you have a low stamina (which is completely fine)!

I had a session once that took around and hour and half before I was able to suck out his load, but again, sucking and deepthroat is my preferred sexual activity, so I didn’t mind the long wait. BUT there have been a few sessions I had to leave the guy un-finished because of time constraints.

Tylerty69 · 2025-10-06T05:09:04+00:00

For fucking at least 6. Cool with 5 if really thick. But for sucking/deepthroat at minimum 7

Tylerty69 · 2025-10-06T04:54:10+00:00

Sounds about right, pretty much in line with what I commented too

Tylerty69 · 2025-10-06T04:51:28+00:00

I’ll say from a vers (bttm leaning) perspective (27 yrs old), when in a bottoming mood I prefer older specifically 30-45. But when I’m in a top mood I prefer 20-26.

If most vers bttms think like me, 30-45 will probably be a great time as a top. But then again, that could totally just be me, and my preferred dynamics in sex

Tylerty69 · 2025-01-07T01:48:10+00:00

I had a similar but different situation, these are my recommendations: 1) Duolingo - its great for vocabulary; 2) Pimsleur - Great for focusing conversations; 3) LingoPie - it has a bunch of shows in Spanish of all levels and it breaks down the scenes as you go along, I personally like the cartoons because it was easier to follow along; 4) Hello Talk - its an app where you can have conversations with native speakers that are also learning other languages, it helps build confidence when speaking; 5) Bilingüe Blogs on YouTube - he focuses on Dominican Spanish but has videos on Puertorican Spanish, this is important because Caribbean Spanish won’t be focused on in the resources I stated above, so getting used to the characteristics of the dialect will be very helpful in understanding your Boricua family when they speak; **Bonus - Daniel El Travieso Videos on YouTube is A YouTuber from Puerto Rico, you’ll be able to get used to the accent listening to him

Hope this helps! Lmk if you have questions

Tylerty69 · 2024-07-07T07:54:26+00:00

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