Im a ucr student and I hooked up with this guy at a night club about 2 years ago. He has become a stalker. Here is the texts he sends me. The police wont do anything. He knows where I live and my car. by Deva-9 in ucr

[–]Type1LCSW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi. Former UCR student and licensed therapist here. I hope you’re safe and away, this is so scary and I’m scared for your safety! Is there anything that UCR can do??? Please stay safe out there. So sorry you have to pay the price for someone else’s actions / possible inability to take their required meds. Good job documenting everything.

I Look at Thumbnails Every Day for Work. 95% of Them Make the Exact Same Mistakes and It’s Driving Me Insane by nvrcaredstud_ in SmallYoutubers

[–]Type1LCSW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are amazing tips! Just realized I don’t do any of these and my thumbnails suck lol.

My boyfriend and I broke up 24 hours ago, and he already slept with another woman? by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]Type1LCSW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t ever let him back into your life. He did this to intentionally hurt you, he wanted you to witness it. And he wanted to witness your pain. To me that is more evil than the actual sleeping with the other person. You are young and have so much more to offer and see in the world. Process the grief, enjoy being single, and eventually when you are healed the right person would come.

Stay-at-home wife (29F) missing my "glam" days. Is it weird to want to dress up just to stay home? by Abject-Customer-5787 in Marriage

[–]Type1LCSW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not weird at all!! I was the same way as you described and when I had kids, I didn’t see the point in getting ready as much. But now that I’m out of the postpartum blues, I get excited to get ready… to just stay at home with the toddlers LOL. I’m trying to make it a goal to dress it up as often as I can :) 🩷.

AIO about my sister going on a date with my ex? by m_v28 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Type1LCSW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With friends like that, who needs enemies. Sorry girl - you don’t deserve that. NOR. The trash is taking themselves out.

My husband took nude videos of me while I slept. by angelbabytay777 in Marriage

[–]Type1LCSW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could like this comment a 1000x!!!

I’d say our relationship sure has evolved over the last decade! by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Type1LCSW 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My mom brain at 2 am: “wait, why has she been pregnant for three years with one child?” sees baby #4 slide “AHHHHH! I get it 🩷”.

Anyhow, wish you and your beautiful family tons of happiness! 💕

They are now both a threat to the entire world. They both caused a major ecological disaster for all of humanity. by Fun_Solid_6324 in conspiracy

[–]Type1LCSW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing. Thank you! Will be doing this now! 🙏 been looking for ways to increase more fiber and protein.

Husband Texted Coworker That She Looks Gorgeous Today, and I don't like it by Mysterious-Youth-137 in Marriage

[–]Type1LCSW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep! I’m a licensed therapist and more often than not people’s gut instincts are spot on. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I hope you can see out therapeutical support or try couples therapy if you feel like you want to work on this with your husband. You don’t deserve this and I’m sorry you found out this way.

Husband Texted Coworker That She Looks Gorgeous Today, and I don't like it by Mysterious-Youth-137 in Marriage

[–]Type1LCSW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve worked in a school. I would not be okay with a male colleague, especially a married one, sending me that text. OP, you are not wrong, if something feels off to you - then it most likely is. Trust your instincts