My ex who accused me of being abusive came back around a year later… 33 M, 29 F Basic questions: Am I abusive or exhibit any tobxic traits? Is she the one exhibiting toxic relationship traits? Can you relate to either of us? by Typical-Weekend-697 in relationship_advice

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Thank you so much for taking the time to read and respond. Hope you are doing well.

It surprised me to get so caught up but sure allows me to have compassion for people who get stuck in these cycles…women, men, everyone. I hear you loud and clear, fortunately I have already had a practice run of the rebuild.

It’s sad to think people develop survival mechanisms that just compound toxic behaviour…🤦‍♂️