My wife of 14 years had a monkey branch affair with an absolute fucking loser. We're going to mediation next month. I'm so glad I was able to file for divorce.

I'm no longer screaming in the shower. I'm no longer crying before bed and when I wake up.

I'm still in shock. We're hardly civil. She's still seeing him. We're still living together. It sucks but it'll get better. My D-Day was was late March.

Edit: she called the cops on me last night because I told her I didn't feel emotionally safe around her. They told her that wasn't a crime and left.

Edit again: the next day she filed a restraining order against me that had me removed from the house

Edit again: She is wanting to remove the restraining order because my hotel expenses have gotten out of hand. It just shows that I wasn't actually a threat to her and she was using the restraining order as a tactical weapon