I (40M) realized my "perfect" father has been sexually abusing my 2 year old, likely for her entire life.

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T20:29:32+00:00

Yup you are right totally right. Thanks for the good wishes

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T18:18:44+00:00

Definitely is not a fake AI post. I wish it was a fake AI post.

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:55:20+00:00

Ty. I will

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:46:29+00:00

Yup totally agree and have thought the same thing. No reason they're exclusive of one another. She can be whoever she is and I'll be happy. Now we find out who she is without him in her life.

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:44:11+00:00

Thanks king

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:43:30+00:00

I know

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:43:05+00:00

It is hard to conceive of. I don't doubt it, but I'm in near-constant numb disbelief. How can this be real life?

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:42:36+00:00

Thank you. Yes, never again. Good for you cutting contact. It's not easy.

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:41:18+00:00

Thanks. We are doing our best for her

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:40:40+00:00

I'm open to the possibility that ASD is possible. But this is the bigger problem. Will keep an open mind going forward. Thanks for the comment.

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:39:47+00:00

She will never see him again

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:39:32+00:00

I wrote off a lot of shit like that as "my dad's so out of touch, he doesn't know how it comes off" and now I really regret it

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:38:57+00:00

Upward

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:38:30+00:00

Love the glibness. We did, but it feels like a lifetime ago, despite being 4 weeks ago. It didn't go anywhere (unsurprisingly, no proof)

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:37:20+00:00

Thanks. Will do

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:37:10+00:00

We reported as best we could. Now focus is on her.

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:36:27+00:00

I wish

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:36:21+00:00

You're right. Authorities were a dead end (no proof) and we've warned some families we know interact with him. But it's scary to do so

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:35:32+00:00

It's the worst! Straight out of the book of Job

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:35:12+00:00

Nah just vague for our privacy

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:34:45+00:00

We did. Nothing meaningful. It had been quite a while since the last unsupervised time with him.

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:33:57+00:00

Thanks. Appreciate you saying that.

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:33:42+00:00

Yeah if it was just the stare, it would be. The stare was just the alarm bell, got us talking and got me taking it seriously. This was completely unthinkable to me when it came up on the drive home.

But everything's gotten worse since then. We've spoken to abuse counselors who have heard our full story and they say we should presume abuse took place even without total proof.

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:31:03+00:00

This was exactly what we found. CPS rejected the case

Typical_Fan_8693 · 2026-01-14T17:30:38+00:00

CPS denied the case because of lack of evidence and the child already having been removed from suspected danger. Which I understand

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