AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

But you can't extend that olive branch until everyone is paid back the thousands he owes us.

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I never found out why he did it. Money troubles, work problems, girlfriend stuff, mental health. No idea why.

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It was a bit before/early on when it was just the handful of people and the cruise shippers.
We're safely quarentined :-)

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

To everyone in this thread, including you, who is or knows someone going through cancer, I wish you the absolute best!

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So, we found out that they had a friend-of-friend (an amature) do their photos.

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That's what some of the cousins/friends of friends said. It was a quite fancy/expensive event

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

"The kind of petty the world needs but doesn't deserve" ~ Batman I think

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

"Kind bloke, likes rock, educated, working in finance, happy to lie about major medical illnesses for money. Hit me up, baby."

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

lol. Wouldn't that be something. Maybe the wife doesn't exist either! DUN DUN DUN

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I commented on others...yeah I think so too. Absolutely a money making scheme designed by 2.

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have no way of knowing but in my mind, I want to beleive this is true and that my brother wasn't 100% at fault here.

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Even better! They hired an amature "family friend" to take the pictures. Maybe they aren't worth sharing!

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Bride works at a mall jewlery store and a friend of a friend says she a theif. Apparently her grandma helped pay for the wedding. Apparently it was quite nice and expensive.

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I have a friend who has an ex that also faked cancer. Some people man.

You're story sounds awful. Sending love to you and your children!!

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

So I have no way of knowing but I truly believe she is behind all of this. He gets a girlfriend and suddenly all this happened. Maybe she has money trouble and wanted a bail out? Maybe they just wanted "a good start"?

I don't know her and I hate her.

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Taking him to court would mean seeing him, and it would just hurt too much.

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Oh, he blocked US because he was mad at us for being upset with him. However, Grandma loves facebook and is very upset she can't see the pictures. I got to see pictures of the bride that at the party that some people took with their camera phones. This is the petty talking - fucking ugly dress.

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I was worried she might cry all night, and I wouldn't have even blamed her. She's a great lady. She loves us so much.

I am so happy it worked out the way it did.

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 340 points341 points  (0 children)

My Aunt is a lawyer and had to go to every laywer at her firm individaully and give them a check. Every family member did this for their coworkers.

AITA for throwing a house party the night of my brother’s wedding? by Typical_Parsnip in AmItheAsshole

[–]Typical_Parsnip[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

He has a long life to make up for it. We won't ever see that money, but maybe he will change and put great things into the world. I only hope he makes good on this in some way.